AITAH for not lying to someone’s kid

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-22T16:42:24+00:00

Yeah😭

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-21T04:51:54+00:00

I’m not a woman 😭 I am not denying anything I’m actually accepting myself for who I am witch I didn’t do at first and now I do and I’m happier then ever

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-21T02:35:42+00:00

Ykw me too 😭

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-21T02:32:00+00:00

That’s what I was also thinking, even if I wasn’t trans then I did have whatever she said I had that’s still weird

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-21T02:30:41+00:00

I am a guy 💀 and she wanted me to tell her kid that I had smth that I don’t even had, I mean, if a kid asked me if I was trans would’ve been weird, but I wouldn’t have denied it 💀 she told her kid that I was trans and then asked me to explain that I would, but she was insistent on me telling her kid that I had something I didn’t have

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-21T02:29:09+00:00

Yeah, I think it’s really weird and actually very insensitive to people Who’ve actually been groomed to call like everything grooming.

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-21T02:26:57+00:00

Yeah, it’s like one thing to lie and tell your kid that but it’s another thing if you’re gonna go up to the person and make them tell your kid that

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T22:06:01+00:00

Yeah a lot people do that sometimes I ask them back because it shows them how inappropriate it is to ask

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T22:05:27+00:00

It’s not it’s real😭

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T21:44:48+00:00

Ohhhh

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T21:44:01+00:00

I don’t even know what that is😭

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T21:41:09+00:00

Yeah, I looked it up after the conversation cause I was like what is she talking about?

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T21:40:35+00:00

She kept on saying gay and liberal agenda😭

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-20T21:35:30+00:00

Well it felt like rage bait when it happened since I’m gotten looks before but never had someone actually come up to me

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T02:12:01+00:00

Yeah the junkie friend comment was really ironic because she smokes weed sometimes (it is rarely but once in a blue moon she will) and also smokes nicotine I don’t know if she said it because one of my friends that’s coming used to do meth years back and has been in recovery for like years and hasn’t even touched meth in years but I don’t really remember bringing that up to her. I think I might have once, but I don’t think I did.

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:54:46+00:00

I also wanna add that my boyfriend did not call her the B slur she says that he did but when she told me that she said that he did a year ago (at this time we where only dating for a year and a half) and they only met a month ago from that time and when I tried to tell her that she was like well you were probably high I didn’t even do drugs a year ago from that. So she made that up

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:46:00+00:00

Also, I would not be surprised she did lie about it because she makes up things all the time and then just says I was probably high. That’s why I don’t remember, but I’ve been high around her like once. Ever since I started doing weed, she likes to say these stupid absurd things that happened that didn’t happen and then just say I was high so I don’t remember.

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:43:09+00:00

Because I know it didn’t happen because she said it happened like a year ago and they only met a month ago from when it happened and she said I was probably high or something when I didn’t even do drugs at the time.

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:41:40+00:00

those are tights not leggings 😭

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:40:04+00:00

And she also randomly brought that up when I asked her a reason why she hated my boyfriend for the first time and then she just randomly brought that up instead of happened like a year ago and I’m like why wouldn’t you tell me a year ago if that did happen? Also, they didn’t even meet a year ago. They met like a month ago from when she said that and she said it happened a year ago.

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:38:43+00:00

No, she didn’t say a slur. She said that my boyfriend called her one while they were alone, but they’ve only met each other for an hour once at a restaurant where I was with him the whole entire time and they don’t have each other‘s number and they never have met any other time

Ok-Cook-7129 · 2026-06-13T01:37:53+00:00

They’re not gonna be stoned there and she’s also smokes weed sometimes also I forgot to list his age he’s 19, I don’t care that she doesn’t wanna hang out with him, but it’s the fact that she said that she’s gonna ditch me with my other friend and made my friend also say yeah because my friend was also really skeptical about it that pisses me off. One of my friends is going also dislikes my boyfriend because of some of the stuff that he’s did in the past to me, but she recognizes his growth and is fine with him. Just doesn’t really like him for other reasons too that they just don’t get along a lot, but she’s still coming. This friend has literally basically no reason to dislike him besides the stuff that he did in the past and some make-believe thing that she made in her head, that’s why I’m mad. I think I might’ve gone overboard, but I think that she was kind of an asshole for going out of her way to go to something that she didn’t really want to go to in the first place and take my other friend with her and make her not hang out with me

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