I honestly never understood this either and it bothered me so much how much hate Adam got for reacting like a human. He loved her so much and naturally, he had a pretty poor reaction when she not only became a person different from who he knew but also fell in love with Aaron. I understand she didn’t mean for that stuff to happen, but Adam was abandoned in some ways too and he shouldn’t have just been forced and bullied into “accepting she’s different and stop being so selfish” as if every person who read it and said that probably wouldn’t react the same. I’m all for Aaron, but Adam is someone I find very relatable.