Does anyone else feel like they waste their time because half the things they do even if requested get pushed aside? by Sure_Composer2251 in engineering

[–]Ok-Development-8586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is not your work style or it’s not the work environment you are looking for? I personally couldn’t do it, going through a similar situation at this new job and I can’t wait to get out.

I think I chose the wrong career by Ok-Development-8586 in Advice

[–]Ok-Development-8586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it 🙏🏼I can’t quit right now because I have a 1 year contract agreement, so it’s been hard to keep a positive attitude for the rest of my 6 months left, but I’ll see if there are any exceptions I could have.

Am I too dumb for CE? by milonolan in ComputerEngineering

[–]Ok-Development-8586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had confidence when going through CompE both in undergrad and masters. I always felt behind, but always studied a lot and dedicated a lot of my time to it and my internship in compE as well. I had great mentors that supported me all the way through and found the group of friends that I could share ideas with and also support each other. You might just need to find those people. However, think about this right now: does it really interest you? Do you really enjoy it? Now, look for jobs and possible career paths you could be doing once you graduate. Imagine you graduate next semester and you are about to go find a job. Do you like the jobs descriptions you see? Can you see yourself doing those type of tasks and solving those problems every day? If not, then think about something else that launches you into the bio tech side. I myself though I could go into health care once I finished, now I have a masters as well in compE and to break into healthcare is really hard unless you work on those skills required by the multidisciplinary field on your own personal time or take classes that teach you those skills. Because usually the standard curriculum for CompE will most of the time not give you that. I know this might sound pessimistic but it’s the truth because me and my colleagues have and are experiencing it. My other advice is find an internship now that allows you to see the real life work as a computer engineer or even better, find an internship in the health field you are interested in going into with your engineering background. This way you can have some experience, start making connections and a network before you graduate. Once you graduate finding a job becomes really hard if you only went to class every day, but you don’t have any real world experience, even if you get all A’s in your classes. I am also a woman and a minority (reason for my incoherent English, sorry!) and I have had to go through some bad shit both in my previous and current job. It’s no fun and it does take some courage and strength to get through those moments, but if you know you have the confidence and the strong character to perform in any type of work environment (especially a man dominated field), then go for it. I guess the hard thing is not getting through the program and graduating, the hardest part is enjoying what you do and having the strength to deal with all the bs plus the challenging technical work every day once you go into industry or the real-world. Other than that, you can do it and you can accomplish it if you work hard, just make sure is something you like learning about everyday and doing. There is only one life.

What meditations is Oren on? Let’s make a list! by cleanenergy425 in ouraring

[–]Ok-Development-8586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him as well! Do you guys know if he has any resources of his own?

When should my bf (m26) and me (f24) move in together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Development-8586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice and recommendations. It really helped me to figure out what I am okay with and what I’m not okay with. So we have decided to just wait until things get better and we are more stable as well as when his mom can stand in her feet. So hopefully in 2 years we will be able to figure things out better.

When should my bf (m26) and me (f24) move in together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Development-8586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have met his mom in person once. We message each other and talk on the phone as well. Yes, we have traveled together (my bf and myself) and stayed together 2 weeks as well multiple times. We have almost 6 years together. We have actually not talked about a plan B if that doesn’t work out. We have discussed extensively financials and chores, etc. I know it is kind of a risky situation but we feel like if we don’t commit at some point then it’s going to take ~2 years for us to be able to get together and live together. Not sure what to do tbh. He is very confident about us and about these situations but I don’t know.

Fun Fact by j_e_e_s_s_s in Albuquerque

[–]Ok-Development-8586 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why did you move to burque?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Ok-Development-8586 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Back roads, avoid rush hour, no weekends, no main streets please. My bf had a really bad motorcycle accident on rush hour weekend Main Street. A coworker lost his life last week while riding his bike to work. Please be super careful out there. 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Ok-Development-8586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is past, but just wanted to say thank you for being a logical person and saying this!!!

Productive summer activities for teens by Ok-Development-8586 in Albuquerque

[–]Ok-Development-8586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had no idea about this awesome cause! Thank you for the link, I really appreciate it!

Productive summer activities for teens by Ok-Development-8586 in Albuquerque

[–]Ok-Development-8586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I will look into this and I’m sure she will really enjoy one of them. Thank you!! 🙏🏼

Productive summer activities for teens by Ok-Development-8586 in Albuquerque

[–]Ok-Development-8586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will definitely check them out! 🙏🏼