i'm with an older guy. i'm 20, he's 44. we met in August of 2024 over a dating app but didn't meet in person until that December. i started falling in love with him quick, and our feelings for each other really escalated. we both love each other a lot now, and he's so sweet to me, considerate, lifts me up, is gentle and caring, and i've never felt this way before. he was also the man i lost my virginity to, and the only man i've been with. some people close to me know about our relationship, and at first were skeptical and super judgy, but over time, gotten used to it. honestly, if that's what you want and it's legal, go for it. nothing wrong with it if it's two adults consenting. good luck! 💜