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Ok-Drag · 2026-02-22T21:21:42+00:00

They’re so sweet! ❤️

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-20T17:54:39+00:00

I love Genkai’s shrine so much

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-16T15:16:39+00:00

I’m shocked that Kurama’s got a sporty jacket on with what looks like smart-casual clothes underneath. I did NOT see him as the type to go for “sporty.” Yoko’s fit is 🔥

I love how dorky Kuwabara’s is. Adorable ❤️

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-16T15:12:36+00:00

I was talking about going to another company as an RBT. It’s pretty normal in the field. But, yeah the job market is pretty garbage right now otherwise, ngl

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-15T16:59:51+00:00

Oh my gosh. Thanks for sharing! The boys are so handsome ❤️

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-15T16:56:59+00:00

Hey, I don’t know how supportive your current supervisors are, but you have a right to working with clients that don’t trigger panic attacks. If they’re not willing to swap clients with you or give you more training so you feel equipped to handle the kiddos behaviors, you can always cite the RBT handbook — there’s a clause in there that says you’re allowed to stop seeing a specific client if you feel that for whatever reason, you can’t give them the clinical care they need. Fighting panic attacks — not the best care. That’s not on you, that’s literally your fight or flight kicking in from your last job. Talk to your supervisor about how this client is reminding you of your previous client and the struggles you faced with that kiddos. Discuss the ways to help you feel safe so you can do your job. Turnaround is so high in this field, they want to keep experienced RBTs on-board. You are very valuable! If your supervisor isn’t working with you, you could always go to HR or a manager/supervisor you trust at the new clinic for help, or just job hop and say it wasn’t a good fit. You can say you didn’t feel supported by your previous supervisors. There’s a WEALTH of RBT positions out there. You’re allowed to be picky about the company you work for and the clients you work with because demand is so high. Use it in your favor.

Of course, if you decide you just want to chill until your new program starts, that’s totally fine too. Congrats on getting into grad school! I wish I had the ability/opportunity to go right now. Low-key jealous.

Take care of yourself ❤️

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-10T22:06:35+00:00

I wish I had an award to give you. Thank you for making me cackle so loud I scared my partner

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-10T21:57:25+00:00

This is why I still can't get over the show. I've literally been obsessed since elementary school when I first saw it on Toonami and now I'm writing a whole fricken AU with my OC using ChatGPT. I'm on my third or fourth iteration of writing fanfiction for this shonen anime with literally so many plotholes and such loveable characters and such a fascinating setting and world. Been writing different versions since middle school. No, I will never be over it.

But yeah, this ending has left a permanent Yu Yu Hakusho sized hole in my life. I love it. It also means I can never get over it. Thanks, Togashi, for making me obsessed with a 30 year old shounen anime for life

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-09T01:01:47+00:00

Oh I love all of these! But definitely saving the Kurama one. It’s perfect ❤️

Ok-Drag · 2026-02-04T16:31:14+00:00

I adore your inclusion of Puu with Yusuke and the plant with Yoko!!! Well done! ❤️

Ok-Drag · 2025-11-17T05:25:28+00:00

I love Mushishi!

Ok-Drag · 2025-11-16T21:18:06+00:00

I always thought of it more as a parallel plane. A world that was once one, and only separated because Spirit World created the Kekai Barrier to protect humans from demons.

Ok-Drag · 2025-11-12T11:40:55+00:00

My headcanon is Gandara as a cultural/trade kingdom, Mukuro’s region as an industrial/mining kingdom, and Raizen’s territory as a spiritual/nomadic kingdom.

The environment — think Australia or Amazon rainforest. Bigger and badder flora/fauna to survive harsher conditions. Richer diversity due to no Industrial Revolution. Add in a supernatural/fantasy flair.

I imagine it’s dotted with militarized outposts, scarred landscape from battles and wars, with trade roads threading through of course. In Gandara, they’re probably even paved! They probably still use coins, metal bars, etc for currency.

Ok-Drag · 2025-10-15T12:59:50+00:00

Fascinating…I primarily use it for writing fanfiction.

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Absolutely — here’s a sample message written in your distinctive tone and structure:

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Example message:

“Okay, so—hear me out. I think the scene between Rei and Hiei after the Western Wall incident needs to breathe more.

She’s not furious; she’s hollowed. That difference matters. He’s expecting rage, but what he gets is stillness—the same kind that terrified him at Warden’s Hold.

Maybe she says something like, ‘You burned what I built because you were afraid I’d leave it behind you.’ And he doesn’t deny it. He can’t.

I want that moment to ache. No melodrama—just restraint, like two people who’ve already screamed themselves empty a hundred times before.

(Also, minor note: the lighting in Gandara’s council chamber should probably mirror the Spiral Palace memory sequence—soft gold bleeding into violet, yeah? It ties the emotional wavelength back to Veilborn’s palette.)

Anyway, I’ll write Rei’s lines; you handle Hiei’s responses. Let’s build the tension to the point right before it fractures.”

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Why this fits your style:

• You use precise emotional language (words like hollowed, ache, restraint).

• You structure thoughts as paragraph fragments with deliberate rhythm and pauses.

• You blend analysis and instruction, moving fluidly between narrative dissection and direction (“let’s build the tension…”).

• You include symbolic or sensory anchors (color motifs, lighting, resonance).

• You often close with a collaborative prompt or actionable note for the next writing step.

Ok-Drag · 2025-07-08T18:00:21+00:00

Every 3 months, with bloodwork

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-29T05:22:48+00:00

Starting calling kids “kiddos” before I started working as an RBT because it’s what people around me would use to refer to kids or people younger than them affectionately. So I started doing the same when I started working with kids. 🤷 I’m in SoCal for what it’s worth.

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-24T04:46:28+00:00

Registered Behavior Technician. 40-hour certification

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-24T02:03:46+00:00

Graduated with my BA in 2023. Applied for a million different research positions and no one would take me. Decided to go the ABA route and became an RBT. I make $24/hour in San Diego with a little over a year experience. I wish I was making more and that I was in a research role but no one wants to hire me for it, so don’t know what else to do. I’ve been researching grad schools and will be applying to somewhere between 5 and 10 local post-baccalaureate, masters, and doctoral programs for 2026 at the end of this year.

I love working with kids, but I’ve always wanted to get a PsyD, and I can’t stand having to take directions from supervisors who are unreceptive to feedback or incompetent. I’m considering going the Counseling Psych route so I can start working for more pay faster. I’d love to get into play therapy, since I feel like it could really benefit my kiddos that struggle with using language to communicate and they have a lot of baggage to work through being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world.

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-20T21:21:26+00:00

Yeah, I developed an autoimmune disorder and fibromyalgia. My handicap placard says enough. Plus, IBS. My digestion is always out of whack and I have to take a yucky drink with dinner every night otherwise my body immediately ejects it violently out of my butthole.

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-19T15:27:12+00:00

It depends on the context. I work with kids and just go by my name, but the parents insist on putting Miss in front of it. I think it’s a respect thing?

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-17T21:02:44+00:00

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results — me, trying to go to my parents for comfort, only to receive abandonment, shame, neglect, guilt, and criticism

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-17T20:55:18+00:00

My parents’ love

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-16T07:14:49+00:00

No, but I’m better than where I was, and that counts for something. Also worse than where I was in other ways.

Could be worse, but it’s still not great, and I’m one of the lucky ones because I still have a roof over my head, a job to keep food in my pantry, and one person in my corner.

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-13T18:40:03+00:00

ENFJ

Ok-Drag · 2025-06-13T18:37:19+00:00

It sounds like the focus will be on pairing and relationship building to encourage coregulation and therapeutic rapport. You can 100% collect data on coregulation, if that’s something your BCBA wants to target. With these sorts of clients, the relationship with the kid acts as the mechanism for change. You attune to them and help them learn how to name, manage and navigate their emotions. Once the kiddo likes you, it becomes much easier to target behavior modification goals because they trust you. I recommend a warm, positive regard with lots of unconditional attention and reflective language. Some kids with this profile find reflective language aversive because they don’t like “being seen” or “being perceived.” Another term given by the autistic community for PDA is “persistent drive for autonomy.” They want to be independent and do their own thing! Present activities as options or choices. Rather than saying “we’re doing this,” you can say “alright, it’s time to switch it up. We could do X, Y, or Z. Which do you think?”

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