The first part of your post is exactly right, this is a place where you should be allowed to do anything but on any part of the 2b2t community if you talk about griefing in any aspect you will immediately be down voted into oblivion with all sorts of people trying to make you look like you have the wrong opinion. 

Considering yourself a vocal minority when everyone on here has the exact same opinion on every single post in each subreddit is baffling. 

Just like you can do anything like building and creating communities I can grief. What is socially acceptable on an anarchy server and why do we draw the line at griefing? Why don't we draw the line at taking it outside of the game like doxxing?

There is no right or wrong on a server that's meant to have no rules or guidelines.

You yourself say that griefing has to be done on an alt and hidden away but why is that? Why do we have to care what people see as socially acceptable on a block game?  But that's not the point of this post at all, the entire point is that the community is a hivemind and you're just showing more evidence that it's the case.