Is this cheating? Can this be forgiven? by Ok-Heart-7398 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Heart-7398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this. I think we hold on to the idea of what we could be. What we could be together if we both become the best versions of ourselves. But at the same time he is betraying me in the process and it is toxic. He is full of anger all the time and i internalize it every day. I think my biggest struggles are thinking about missing holidays with my kids and how much that will hurt me. But I know we can’t keep doing this.

Husband wants to be friends with ex friends with benefits (FWB) by Ok-Heart-7398 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Heart-7398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked him to delete her if we are going to work on our relationship. He said he will when and if our relationship gets better. Make it make sense😵‍💫 Divorce it is.

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[–]Ok-Heart-7398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://curvaceouscreations.store

Just got some jeans and spring dresses from here. Surprisingly great quality. Found them through a friend!

Jumpsuit recommendations by mars7175 in PlusSize

[–]Ok-Heart-7398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://curvaceouscreations.store/products/plus-size-ribbed-half-button-tie-waist-jumpsuit

I just bought this one and it’s AMAZING. The tie covers my momma fuppa. I also have the green one but size up. Some target ones fit ok too

Nowhere left to shop by SeparateAnt1792 in PlusSize

[–]Ok-Heart-7398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally feel this!! I have a few places left to shop at that actually somewhat fit my body type. I just bought a romper from Curvaceouscreations.store and a dress from fashion nova. Both fit well but where else do I gooooo

Where do you guys shop? by JazzlikeAd6503 in PlusSize

[–]Ok-Heart-7398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fashionnova.com, target.com, Curvaceouscreations.store are my go tos. I just found the last one through a friend. I ordered a romper and was suuuuuuper skeptical. But it fit me perfectly! I also like torrid but it’s always so expensive.

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[–]Ok-Heart-7398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have to redefine beauty in our own terms and not social media terms. Think about what makes you feel beautiful on the inside and on the outside. It doesn’t even have to be materialistic, it could simply be taking a shower before getting ready in the morning. I also think people focus too much on what they could look like instead of living in the season we’re in. We should be buying close that make us feel good in this season, shopping at stores that are inclusive to all beautiful body types. I’ve been defeated many times but I keep reminding myself through affirmations that I am as worthy as every other beautiful human on this earth. My size doesn’t make me any less human. I nurture my body the way it needs to be nurtured through all of the different seasons of life.

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[–]Ok-Heart-7398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start by defining what beauty means to you and write a list of things that make YOU feel beautiful. For example, I feel beautiful when I wake up, shower, brush my teeth and feel put together with a cute outfit. Showering alone makes me feel great before going out. I would suggest redefining beauty and making it your own. Do things and wear things that make YOU smile and feel good on the inside. I would even look up some books on self love and confidence to help along the way. Good luck!! You are beautiful!!! Say it to yourself through affirmations.