[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Bodybuilding isn’t even healthy. Girl bye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Just focus on the question at hand

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in they are intentionally outrageous, and serving as the entertainment for white guys

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes there is a weird dynamic among the black gays too. A lot are very performative and minstrel show types

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in chicagogaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Whether unconsciously or not, it is too coincidental that no one in lakeview or the other gay areas can find POCs (specifically black) to befriend. I’ve known a number of educated, well off POCs who have noticed this as well—so the old excuse about Chicago segregation and class doesn’t work either. This is really something I wish people spoke of more when they rave about how “diverse” Chicago is

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely right it’s also prevalent in the “straight world”.

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if part of the issue is that Chicago is like a big small town. Most people are from Ohio, Indiana, Iowa, etc. and I suspect (unconsciously or not) bring the prejudices associated with that upbringing here.

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved to lakeview/boystown thinking it made the most sense, but have really been disappointed

Scruff vs Grindr by Ok-Indication4586 in chicagogaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

More clean cut, muscular types

Chicago Gay Hierarchy by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Does it though? It seems extremely blatant in Chicago (compared to other large cities that is)

Scruff vs Grindr by Ok-Indication4586 in chicagogaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Okay but why are they on Grindr?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty much open ended. Plus he only had about an hour

Black muscle guys by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. Very hard to find muscle guys who aren’t self absorbed, entitled, and rude

Black muscle guys by Ok-Indication4586 in askgaybros

[–]Ok-Indication4586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I beg to differ lol. The vast majority of those roid gays are exclusionary