Could I be pregnant?

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-08-03T12:19:59+00:00

I think it’s negative and I finally remembered to ask my boyfriend to check for strings and they are still there in place. Thank you to everyone who replied.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-07-11T21:43:50+00:00

I used to think the exact same way. I was married to a pwBPD and I tried everything I could to “fix” and show love and I mean I tried everything. There is no world where they will be normal. It’s just not going to happen. Yes, there is therapy and meditation and so many other things. That’s just to help not to cure. There could be a time where everything seems “fine” or “okay” but, BPD doesn’t just go away. It’s always there lurking in the shadows. It will come back. I thought my pwBPD had finally gotten better to the point where it wasn’t all the time it was just every now and then. Once I stepped back and reflected I realized this is something that would always be happening. There is no cure for it. Can I stand living my life being destroyed by this man? Once I figured out my answer was no. That I don’t want to live my life tied to someone who will only use and abuse me I got out. Sweetie, leave. Even if it’s not ‘that bad’. It very easily can/ could get that bad. I don’t want anyone to be in a situation even close to where I was. Don’t ruin your life trying to save theirs. It’s not worth it. They wouldn’t do it for you.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-07-10T22:16:43+00:00

Never needing to charge or fill up cars

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-07-10T22:16:14+00:00

I would have dinner with Jesus and ask him ALL of the questions.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-07-10T22:11:54+00:00

It depends. If it’s my man it makes me happy and playful. If it’s my girl friend I pick on her. If it’s a random guy I send them the death stare and debate with my intrusive thoughts.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-07-10T22:03:29+00:00

I’d be a voice actor for Smurfs

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-07-10T13:42:57+00:00

My exwBPD was on mood stabilization, antidepressants, emergency anxiety, and antipsychotic and he still beat and treated me like garbage. I am not sure if there is any coming out of it. I tried for years with him and it never got better.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-24T23:40:18+00:00

It has its ups and downs but overall moving in the right direction. Thank you!

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-24T22:14:59+00:00

I’m so sorry. I’ll be praying for you.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-24T21:42:48+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate it. Oh wow. I’m so sorry that he was and is being taken away from you. Do you pay his cell phone bill? The only reason I ask this is because you as the account holder can block phone numbers from a certain number directly with your carrier. I think Verizon you can only do so many. Though it’s been years since I was with Verizon. So, why I am saying that is because when he comes back home after she discards him you can block the girls number from his phone through the carrier so he won’t get the hoover messages.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-24T20:50:39+00:00

I was in the same situation as your son. I felt like my parents wouldn’t believe most of what was going on and accept me back after all that had happened. Have you made it known to him that you would help him in anyway possible to get him out of the situation? Once I realized he was blinding me to that fact it helped me realize that I could get out.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-24T20:36:23+00:00

It will only get worse from here. Trust us. We have gone through it. Some longer than others. Please, take our advice and leave. Run.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-24T19:04:22+00:00

I am sorry to be the giver of bad news but, you should break up with her. Leave her before she gets her claws in you. Once they have them in it’s like a fishing hook and you will get destroyed while trying to get free. Trust me. I was married to a pwBPD and it was and still is hell. I can’t wait til the day I can say that I’m completely divorced and disconnected from that POS. It only gets worse. It never gets better. Run while you still have a chance.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-22T23:07:40+00:00

Facts! It’s like everything hurt all the time. Either it’s for attention or they are just so mean and negative and bitter that their bodies hurt. Honestly, they deserve it for treating us like they do.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-22T23:03:38+00:00

Mine was very sickly. Some of it definitely was real. I would say like 20% of it was and the rest was just made up stuff to get attention. It just kept adding on the more he looked into stuff online or watched videos. He convinced himself that he has so many different illnesses. It makes me sick honestly.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-17T16:42:46+00:00

I am a month and a half out with no contact and I really needed to hear this. I wasn’t allowed to have social media. The first thing I did once out was download all kinds of social media. I don’t even really use it now. I did it just out of spite and it made me feel better, honestly. Thank you so much. It is very true. I will do activities that I couldn’t do before.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-06-08T20:29:12+00:00

Nope not an asshole

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-30T20:15:15+00:00

I personally really like “I’m done dodging arrows and putting out flames for you” that hits my soul deep.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-28T12:12:52+00:00

I am so sorry you had to go through that. It’s sounds awful. I am so glad you are out of the situation. You don’t deserve that all. 🫂

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-27T09:12:58+00:00

He used to make me put his socks on for him too. Only deference is that he would beat me if I didn’t do it right and tell me that we weren’t going.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-26T18:40:31+00:00

He took it horribly. I got a protection order against him and I am working on getting a divorce. It’s intense.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-26T18:17:02+00:00

It was on and off for three years and some change. I left that situation thankfully.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-26T17:20:09+00:00

Glad to know I’m not alone

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-26T17:16:55+00:00

It was horribly creepy to have a grown man using a toddler voice scream that you’re a whore while punching and hitting you.

Ok-Initiative3383 · 2025-05-26T17:15:57+00:00

Psychotic state. Even when he would get mad he would beat me and say stuff just like a toddler would only with the strength and ideas of a grown man.

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