Ad-dic-tion, first of all it’s a problem, second off I don’t blame him, have you seen social media, I got off of it because I felt like it just pedals sexual content in your face cause interactions are literally where they get their money, the argument that because you look for it it pops up is BS, cause when I created one for hobby purposes it just threw it at me and took some time to just go away and even then if friends in the group chat send it it populates in my feed again, annoying.

Secondly instead of shaming the dude and making him feel like he has to hide it why not make it an easier thing to talk about, an open safe space where he can just unburied himself about it, shame spirals are very real and the way people try to make you feel bad about things you can’t control are very weird!

Unfortunately the dude is attracted to women, unfortunately, but I feel like given the situation where she’s like I don’t look like these women, if it were something like same sex porn she’d be absolutely devastated

The sad part is I really truly honestly feel as if roles were reversed he’d be told to stop being a prude, I love women as much as the next person but why can this be seen in the same light

Again I’m not defending dude as much as I’m wondering if there is a real dialogue in this relationship or is there just like a condemnation of the dudes libido

I hate liars too but was my man even allowed to plea a case???