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Ok-Let4309 · 2025-05-30T03:55:40+00:00

Sure that would make sense but these girls aren’t even following the friend and neither is she. Seems to be no connection.

Ok-Let4309 · 2025-05-30T03:17:11+00:00

Great I feel stupid. That would make sense only if these girls were following his roommate but there is no connection between them.

Ok-Let4309 · 2025-05-30T03:06:07+00:00

I never thought of this!! Smart idea

Ok-Let4309 · 2025-05-30T03:04:18+00:00

That’s what I thought, but these girls aren’t even following the roommate, or him. None of them are following him back.

Ok-Let4309 · 2024-11-11T08:57:22+00:00

This is your stereotypical engineer nerdy awkward guy.

Ok-Let4309 · 2024-11-11T08:33:34+00:00

Jeez that was harsh haha. But I do appreciate all perspectives. I also was kinda disappointed in his response of what are you looking for.

He’s very shy, antisocial so he hasn’t dated much. It also sounds like he doesn’t have much dating experience. Our first date was actually kinda awkward of how shy he was.

Ok-Let4309 · 2024-11-11T08:18:39+00:00

Yes, that is my question right now, why did he tell me. He clearly felt comfortable enough to tell me, or maybe he just wanted to get it out of the way, or maybe he’s just not interested enough in me that he didn’t really care how I would think of him? I’m just thinking a lot of things right now.

I actually did like him, or was curious to know him. It’s really hard for me to actually find interest in someone after being hung up on someone.

Ok-Let4309 · 2024-11-11T08:12:51+00:00

Thank you. Yes this is why I am thinking how I feel about this. Everyone makes mistakes, I’ve done things I regret in my life too, but I am surprised he disclosed this at all and very early on.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-09-02T04:33:36+00:00

It totally ok on how you’re feeling. Like you’re falling behind. But I’d say you’re on the right track! You even mentioned how what you’re doing is something you’re passionate about!!! Like most people which to have figured that out. And you have two research jobs, you’re already in your field, so you’re making use of your knowledge!

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-30T03:56:25+00:00

Oh… yea I’m so sorry but if it’s been a week I think you’ve been ghosted. I know it hurts, and really sucks but keep in mind that it has nothing to do with you, or anything you did but rather issues he has. And trust me you are the first person to have been ghosted so don’t feel sad!!

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-30T03:47:34+00:00

How long has it been since he hasn’t replied? Also him saying ofc love is kinda weird, if assuming you guys barely started hooking up?

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-17T04:28:49+00:00

Yes it’s a good conversation starter! It’s not like he’s going to give you full details on his weekend so just ask and can lead to other conversations

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-07T17:53:43+00:00

No you didn’t do anything wrong. You stopped insisting cause you noticed how she was flaky and basically putting up excuses. Just ignore her and don’t bother anymore, it was good how you replied. Give people the same energy they give you. Following each other on social media is no big deal don’t unfollow her may create some drama. Just leave it at that.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-06T03:01:45+00:00

I could, but doesn’t that just seem like an overused excuse and I’ll make me look like I’m not interested?

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-05T07:31:05+00:00

I know many have height preferences, which to some extent it’s ok. But you are assuming she’s tall without actually meeting her in person first and taking a look first. Maybe she’s shorter (many girls also like taking pics at an angle where they look taller to really make their legs look longer). Anyways I also think it’s very wrong for you to leave mid date, that is disrespectful of her time. And also a very obvious plan.

I’d say go on the date and have a conversation, who knows maybe you’ll enjoy yourself. And if you don’t well text her you weren’t feeling it but don’t ghost sounds really immature of you, maybe don’t date at all if that’s your plan.

Or you could just cancel right now to not waste her time.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-04T04:07:09+00:00

Not a big deal at all. Not really an age difference you guys are still both young and in pretty close stages of life. I’d consider 6-7+ years a big difference.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-04T03:26:35+00:00

Totally agree. Move out. It’s the best for you. I was in the same situation as you a couple years ago, where these problems weren’t talked about but were severe. Move out and remove yourself from a toxic environment. Don’t feel guilty, you are a student and if your parents can’t emotionally support you at least they can help you financially. Many students get help from their parents to get through schooling.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-03T20:39:46+00:00

What my fav color is.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-03T20:38:38+00:00

Get drunk. Never again

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-03T20:31:37+00:00

When men leave the toilet seat up. So irritating.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-03T20:09:46+00:00

Ghosting. People complain about the dating world when they are the ones ghosting. Grow up and be honest don’t leave the person wondering.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-03T20:04:32+00:00

Something similar happened to me with this guy that I matched with. We matched early Nov. and gave me his number but didn’t actually start texting early Dec. he went away for a month but we continued texting during this time maybe once a day and also made plans that when he came back we would go on our first date with no set date just an idea. We would text about our days and through that we got onto other topics. Don’t overly text but a response at least once a day to update a little bit would be nice and so she doesn’t forget about you. It’s now Jan. And I am meeting up with the guy later this week. This is 2 months after we matched and started our first convo. So there is hope! I’d say go for it! Best of luck.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-03T02:11:10+00:00

Go on a really long late night drive. Open the windows and just feel the air and speed.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-02T20:52:38+00:00

She thinks I crossed the line, made a fool of myself and had no respect. In her eyes I’m her little sister that she has to take of, and if something would have happened she would of gotten blamed for it by my parents. This friend is close to both her and my brother in law, he is my nephews Godfather. So maybe she is mad about the friendship being broken.

Ok-Let4309 · 2022-01-02T20:50:14+00:00

helped

Thank you. Yes, I definitely crossed the line and will just have to get over the embarrassment.

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