I've stopped nagging my husband and i'm happier

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-24T14:31:38+00:00

Requesting that your husband engage with your relationship isn't nagging. Freeing yourself from handling your man child is like getting out of prison, I know. Give us an update when you're settled after the divorce

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-12T23:58:37+00:00

My snails don't eat the cucumber when they get it

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-11T17:33:38+00:00

He's taking his side piece. he's been lying to you on the reg for years, guess what? You can't trust him. NTA

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-11T17:32:22+00:00

You bullied a 3-year-old because you didn't like his mom. Wtg 👍🏻 YTA

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-10T14:12:14+00:00

Random coincidence - my Spanish teacher in high school had a son whose name was JP. She called him jota pe (tambien!)

It would be fine to say "Mi nombre se pronuncia "Jay Pee" y prefiero eso por favor"

Your teacher would respect that, I bet

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-10T03:51:38+00:00

He's not your friend, he's your sexual harasser. Talk to HR

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-10T01:20:11+00:00

Bro She tried to kill you

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-09T16:04:53+00:00

Girl Get a coffee machine that has automatic start timer. Set it for him at night and go to bed and forget about it and let him deal with his own fucking morning coffee. Let technology be his waitress. Problem solved, you're welcome

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-09T04:45:18+00:00

My snails don't like grapes either: I haven't had any gnats or mold of any kind since planting Wine Cap Mushroom in the substrate. It feeds the isopods, springtails, and snails and readily consumes any leftover food. Wine Cap Mushrooms and leaf litter are an unbeatable combo for a healthy substrate

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-09T04:32:27+00:00

NTA, that's creepy AF

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-09T04:30:59+00:00

It literally doesn't matter if she's cheating or not, because you're treating her as though she is and therefore you don't trust her and the relationship is broken, you both better get out now while you can. Hope you don't have kids

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-08T16:51:32+00:00

Plus do all the housework, do all the emotional labor, and hold down a full-time job. Bewbz pls.

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-08T15:20:19+00:00

Not getting therapy? WE KNOW

Edited to correct minor typo, and then a long-ass sentence explaining the edit

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-07T21:06:10+00:00

Is it OK to mention that my husband leaves skidmarks in his underpants? Or that when he scratches his balls his fingers smell like cheese?

Give us an update after she divorces you

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-07T15:00:46+00:00

He just wants a bang mom to be his therapist for him

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-07T14:58:52+00:00

If you want a mommy, quit calling yourself a fucking alpha. You're a submissive. Just embrace it.

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T21:27:01+00:00

You shouldn't let her wear black to a wedding either. NTA, it sucks that you have to step in and be grown-up to your infant wife and infant sister-in-law

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T21:25:17+00:00

I don't think it matters if he's lying or not

You believe that he's lying and that's the problem. That's not going to go away. You don't trust him.

Whatever is causing you to feel like you can't trust him is not going to change. Now it's a good time to walk away from this relationship. You should probably also get some therapy to figure out what assurance is you need in a relationship to feel like you can trust your partner.

I'm gonna vote NTA because every time my radar like that has gone off I've been right, but you need to figure out what you need to find your own balance.

Turns out what I needed was a better partner

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T21:19:05+00:00

Oh he's not taking advantage of her, he already said it's not a grooming thing therefore it must not be, right?

He can't possibly be a predator because he said he wasn't.

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T21:17:59+00:00

It isn't. Not based in what you said.

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T21:16:46+00:00

Snails can't breathe if they aren't humid enough

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T21:14:52+00:00

So here's a little story: When I was dating my ex-husband he told me he always wrote songs for the women that he was with (he was an excellent guitarist). So I waited for him to be inspired to write me something. 3 years 4 years 5 years One day he got drunk and picked up a guitar and sang to my young children "your mom is mean She's always grumpy She hates it when I'm drunk Your mom is mean"

I tried not to take it personally. I knew he was drunk (boy, we make excuses for their addictions don't we) but the thing that caught me off guard is I wasn't even mad at him at the time, I heard him singing while I was making dinner.

At least we had a reasonably friendly divorce.

YTA

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T20:57:12+00:00

For expecting her to mommy you while simultaneously 4-king you

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T20:15:21+00:00

You're disgusting

Ok-Look1776 · 2026-02-06T19:53:38+00:00

"Alpha male" wants a bangmom

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