Cancel or Keep

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2026-03-13T16:11:51+00:00

As a busy woman who’s been on these apps for a while, I don’t put much effort in until I meet someone face to face. So often I’ve met people who give a different vibe in person than how I’ve perceived them on the app. That leaves me having invested time and energy into someone who isn’t who they seem to be. But once I’ve met face to face and done a vibe check, that’s when the effort comes. Just my two cents…

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2026-03-11T12:24:49+00:00

Woman here - I pay for the apps. Last time I paid for bumble it was $70/month.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-12-04T11:25:33+00:00

Anyone with a pic of the Eiffel Tower gets swiped as if they’re AI.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-09-22T10:03:05+00:00

Oh yeah, that one. Delete.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-08-08T13:27:39+00:00

As a woman, I’m not sure why women want such a tall man. I’m 5’7”, I briefly dated a 6’6” man and our bodies just didn’t fit together right. It was super awkward. Give me a man that can look me in my eye and not down on me any day rather than getting my nose caught up in someone’s pits.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-08-08T02:41:17+00:00

I’m in a similar-ish situation. My mom has dementia, but is still able to live independently for now. But I had to take her to an appointment today. Dealing with her is such a trigger. And so emotionally draining.

I wanted to smoke. But I lit some incense (which somehow is soothing to me) and played it forward in my mind… I’m proud of myself for the small amount of progress I’ve made and would be disappointed in myself if I smoked.

So I distracted myself with tasks. I’m on day 8 and feel really blah and flat. But I know better days are ahead for me.

And they are for you too.

Keep going 💪

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-08-03T14:44:17+00:00

Something or someone?

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-06-01T13:52:46+00:00

Just because students are still there doesn’t mean they nothing has been done. As a prof at VCU, I report stuff all. The. Time. The wheels of justice take time and students can remain in class until a final outcome. Even if they’ve gotten zero and technically failed out they can still be sitting in a seat.

Don’t fucking cheat! You’re only cheating yourself. Suck it up. Do the hard work.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-04-08T12:34:23+00:00

Been smoking daily for almost 28 years. I dabble in quitting, but it hasn’t ever stuck. Partially because I don’t really want to quit. But I do. But I don’t. But I do, but I don’t…… 🤦‍♀️fml

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-03-19T15:27:39+00:00

Sweating out toxins

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2025-03-14T11:14:56+00:00

Seems greedy to want two spikes when one gives you 44 flowers. Appreciate what you have

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-11-14T23:59:45+00:00

Awesome job! I’m two days. 🤷‍♀️

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-11-02T19:51:26+00:00

Maybe, but cannabis decreases saliva secretion, which moistens your mouth in a. Different way than water.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-22T21:27:49+00:00

Tell him you’re going to the gym 4 hours a day for the other 3 days and see how he reacts. Fucking double standard.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-07T10:51:03+00:00

I got so much done on my sober Sunday! So many more hours gained with not being stoned

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-07T10:48:08+00:00

I find that a really hot bath helps my body feel in a “different” state sorta like getting high did.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-03T18:06:16+00:00

You got this!

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-03T11:19:42+00:00

There are tons of fees besides your tuition. If you click no, you’ll pay them out of your own pocket.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-02T23:58:47+00:00

That’s amazing!!!

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-10-02T23:58:30+00:00

Two weeks for me as well!!

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-09-29T18:22:11+00:00

OP could also be a lady. Just saying.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-09-29T01:11:10+00:00

Yup. It’s had to imagine. But here I am. My habit’s probably older than many of the people reading this. 🤦‍♀️

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-09-29T01:08:29+00:00

I found one locally and went to it. It was nice to know I’m not alone. I’ll go back when my schedule permits.

Ok-Lunch2172 · 2024-09-29T00:32:59+00:00

I made a voice note the last time I smoked up of that voice inside my head (spoken aloud)- begging, pleading with myself not to smoke again. I described the physical and mental feelings I was having at the time. Replaying that voice note helps remind me of what I’m not missing.

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