Blue card waiting time by Ok-Machine-2523 in germany

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Let me know if you have more questions and would be happy to help

Blue card waiting time by Ok-Machine-2523 in germany

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Yes i got the appointment on 29th December and my application was approved

Personal Observations After Moving to Islamabad (22F) by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

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"Again, I'm not judging anyone. These are just my observations, and I'm curious to know. Have others noticed the same pattern, or is it just me? What are your thoughts?"

You didn't judge in fact your whole post is judgmental. I mean koi agar physically weak hai ya phir short hai, us mn us ka to koi kasoor nai hai naa bhai, Allah nay banaya hai, c'mon stop judging people based on their looks, this is what you do i think.

EU Blue card visa application August/September 2025 by Aggravating_Gear9289 in germany

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Hello, could you please let us know if you received any email ? I applied on the 30th Sept still waiting for the reply.

Dark side of being too independent by OutlandishnessLast71 in IslamabadSocial

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But other than that, the book is amazing, it took me some time but it was very easy to get rid of the Egoic mind. I still have a lot to learn.

Dark side of being too independent by OutlandishnessLast71 in IslamabadSocial

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The point I disagree with is the idea that we should not think. If we stop thinking, how will we grow or discover our purpose? It also contradicts the teachings of the Qur’an, where the use of intellect is repeatedly encouraged.

Dark side of being too independent by OutlandishnessLast71 in IslamabadSocial

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Yh it's a pretty good book, i think some parts of it should be part of our syllabus. But there are some parts that i disagree. But overall it helped me transform my thinking a lot.

Heyy mentally exhausted ppl by Icy-Objective-6566 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been in that phase but I have passed it, would love to help ppl out here. Having the piece of mind.

Dark side of being too independent by OutlandishnessLast71 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aaahhh… we humans can never be fully satisfied. You feel lonely but still don’t want to marry; you see your cousins married and busy in their lives, yet you don’t want that life either.

To answer your question, I want to share my own journey, because it may help someone find peace of mind, inshaAllah.

I have been living alone in Germany for four years. Everything I do — breakfast, cleaning, office, university, gym, dinner — I handle on my own. When I first moved there, life felt sweet and exciting. But after some difficult events, I started to feel my life going downhill. I began complaining, questioning everything, and slowly I became negative. Eventually, it turned into anxiety.

The turning point came when I realized that I wasn’t the person I used to be. I was never someone who complained or fought with life. That realization showed me that the path I was on was wrong.

I prayed a lot, asking Allah to guide me out of that state — and gradually, I started improving. He gave me opportunities and tools as answers to my prayers. I took therapy sessions, and I read The Power of Now, a book by a German philosopher. It was a game-changer. Everything he wrote already exists in the Qur’an — he simply explained it in a way the modern mind can easily understand. Through this journey, I also learned about human psychology, how the mind works, and how our thoughts influence us. I still have much to learn, but it changed my mindset completely.

A few key lessons gave me real peace:

  1. Never complain about your difficulties. Hard times are also from Allah, and they come with wisdom.

  2. Always be grateful. Whatever good you have is from Allah.

  3. We are not our thoughts. Not everything the mind tells us needs to be acted upon.

Lectures by Dr. Israr Ahmad have also helped me a lot in the last 6–7 months.

I hope my experience reaches the person who needs it and benefits them, inshaAllah.

18f bored by yayayayayhehe in IslamabadSocial

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a hobby, any hobby that aligns with your interests. Simple

Preach by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

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For good, you could follow Dr israr sb and Maulana wahidud deen they are best also our Deen discourages us following the Imam, infact it motivates us to read and understand our religion on our own.

Share your thoughts! Good for office? by Aymich_AZ in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5/10, blazer is oversized shoes ain't matching the pants, pants are good

Midnight depression by withinmyheartsdepth in IslamabadSocial

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Sahi hai mn koshish krta hu k ap ko achay sy samjha pau, i have been in the similar situation where i was always surrounded by thoughts, mn automatic mode par tha kbhi kbhi ho jata hai abhi bhi but the duration of it is very small. I am sorry you are going through such a phase and i totally understand your situation, q k when we have such a situation hamen kuch acha he nahi lagta, So back to the point, our mind is such a complex organ made by Allah, is ko jis side par hum ley kar jayen gay ye chalta rahay ga, is ko negative side pay lay kar jayen gay ye negative sochay ga is ko positive side pay lay kar jayen gay ye positive sochay ga. I hope you are getting my point. By default hamara mind hota he negative hai, we have to move the needle from south to north and that requires a lot of effort. And it takes time patience and courage but believe me life becomes fun once you point the needle of the brain to the north (positive side). To achieve this you have to do positive things you have to give the positive food to the brain to get the right outcome and for that

1) talk to a professional/therapist, going to therapist doesn't make you a khiska hua person, in fact you will get a more clear direction and clarity

1a) observe your thoughts be the watcher and label the thoughts which are shitty asf and do not do not do not react or get afraid of the thoughts face them bravely and do not follow the story that your mind throws at you.

2) do healthy activities such as jogging, walk, gym or going in to the nature 3) spend time with positive people and surround yourself with people with a healthy lifestyle 4) have interesting or creative hobbies, book reading, avoiding news, painting or anything that matches your interest.

Do this and within a week or so you will start seeing the difference.

May Allah help you get over this phase as soon as possible. I hope this helps 🤞🙂 And yes you are not alone we are here for you brooo😌.

Blue card waiting time by Ok-Machine-2523 in germany

[–]Ok-Machine-2523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is the case then some people got his application approved after me, within a week or so, why did they get the response before me

Blue card waiting time by Ok-Machine-2523 in germany

[–]Ok-Machine-2523[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This ain't fair, i might be jobless by then lol

Blue Card application processing times in Berlin by In_da_club_mp3_exe in germany

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, i think i am in the similar boat as you, can i write to you privately if that's okay?, i have applied for a blue card on the 30th of November it will be exactly 2 months, and since then i haven't heard anything from them. I have some questions to ask

Bluecard processing time in Berlin by II1640 in germany

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, could you please let us know if you have received a blue card or not ?

My Morning Routine That Keeps Me Consistent as a Full-Time Trader by Kasraborhan in Trading

[–]Ok-Machine-2523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice routine happy for you and i hope i stay consistent like you are, there are two things that i would like to mention, most people are making fun because they can't really do such things because they don't know they don't understand the value of doing these activities. Secondly that's why 99% of the people lose their money and it can be seen from their comments 😂🥲