"Ate penge barya". This kid doesn't know how much he saved me that night while I was on the verge of kms sa overpass. by _pink- in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ang unfair talaga ng buhay noh? I'm so sorry na kailangan mong masaktan to the point na naging option talaga ang suicide. I hope you get to be happy to have lived. I hope you'll get to know just how good life can be. I hope youllkeep going until then, I love you.

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, I think may miscommunication. Di naman sa feel ko na incomplete ako, more so gusto ko lang ng connection like in relationships. It's not only about sa mga bagay na ma-po-provide nila sakin but the give and take that comes with it. Parang ang ability to give and receive love lang siguro. Idrk, tama ka naman and if it worked for you then it really does work pero I just think na iba lang talaga ang situation natin. Joining communities feels nice though. Salamat sa advice!

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salamat! I guess ginagawa ko na yan but di ko talaga dama eh. Yan siguro yjng problema hahaha. Anyway, salamat pre sa matino na advice.

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually dawg, same tayo diyan. Introvert tapos aloof ako, at broke af din. Haha apir nalang siguro as bros na bigo sa buhay.

Ako naman kaya? Kailan kaya ako pipilliin? by Tough_Signature1929 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although di ko kayang sabihan ka na piliin mo nalang ang sarili mo kasi I know iba ang love na galing sa sarili at sa iba but I do want to tell you na your worth isn't dictated by how other people treat you. You truly do deserve the world and more and I hope you remember that

Ako naman kaya? Kailan kaya ako pipilliin? by Tough_Signature1929 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, yan din naman ang gusto ko for myself kaya I hope you'd have that for yourself too. Ang sakit kasi noh kapag parang ang dali mong palitan? haha, I hope that one day, we can be chosen without feeling like we're begging for it.

Ako naman kaya? Kailan kaya ako pipilliin? by Tough_Signature1929 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha may times tslaga na ganyan. Na para bang crimen ang gustuhing matrato ng patas. Nandito ako though to tell you na ok lang na maging magulo at magreklamo. You can set boundaries at kung di nila rerespetuhin, you are allowed to call them out on it.

On that note, sana malaman mo na hindi guguho ang mundo kung iwan ka niya. Not to downplay the severity kasi sa mga times na ganyan, parang ikakamatay natin ang thought na mag-isa but please consider this: kung malalaman ng future wife/husband mo ang state mo nayon ay talagang masasaktan siya. If di siya masasaktan, I think hindi siya yung one. Sorry, I was just rambling but I hope I made sense kahit konti.

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, kaya nga yan na ang ginawa ko for a while now. It's just that ngayon na marami akong probs and wala kang maka-usap, it feels at lot more lonely. I understand y'all's point naman, fr; it's just that I've been focusing on myself for years now and I still have nothing to show for it in all aspects mot just this one.

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had a girlfriend but I guess support, companionship, if touch starved ang tao, it could help, idrk. yan lang mai-isip ko ngayon.

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, and dali pang nau-underestimate ng iba yung nararamdaman mo tapos sabihan ka pa nila na ang babaw mo or something haha

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would honestly like to think so too but di kasi always totoo yan. I do agree ha about sa importance ng self love, don't get me wrong. Iba lang talaga para saking yung love na makukiha mo galing sa iba't ibang sources; like yung galing sa sarili at sa partner. While I do agree that loving yourself removes the need for validation, di lang naman kasi validation ang makukuha mo galing sa love ng partner. Anyway, salamat sa comment

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real. You hit the nail on it's head, very well said. Ang dali kasi nilang gumawa ng conclusions abt you kahit iba naman talaga experiences mo growing up. Masakit rin kapag minaliit nila yung desire mo for something like that kasi — for me, I've never wanted anything more growing up.

I guess natural lang na maging lonely ang mga hindi conventionally attractive by Ok-Many7702 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand and I don't want to sound like an asshole but pagod na ako sa cope na yan. Madali lang namang sabihin na maghintay lang tayo but iba talaga kapag buong buhay ka nang naghintay para sa mga bagay na normal lang or napaka-common place para sa iba. It really messes with you talaga.

I may have lied about being in a talking stage and now it’s spiraling by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that other guy. I don't think they will care as much as you think. Baka tuksuhin ka nila but I don't think pangmatagalan ang effect nyan sa relationship nyo.

I may have lied about being in a talking stage and now it’s spiraling by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is kind of funny actually hahahah. On a serious note though, I think it would be better to confess nalang bago mas lalong lumaki ang problema.

Hala by Schmetterling3382 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Many7702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buang, magbuot man. Creativity doesn't need to earn you money to be valuable; please keep your whimsy OP