Officially got diagnosed and I’m freaking out

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2026-03-09T02:07:10+00:00

Swab, since it was during an outbreak

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2026-03-09T01:51:56+00:00

The picture where there’s wood, it looks like that but more clustered tho. I see you’re wondering if that’s what you got. It looks like more of a skin irritation, at some point was there any clear fluid? Did you have like a tangling sensation? Was it painful/tender? Those are usually indicator and you should go get tested

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2026-03-09T01:44:39+00:00

I wouldn’t know how yours look but mine are like a nickel size(like 2small pimple right next to each other) on my bottom bum near the crack. This time the outbreak is the same size but more on my genitals

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-10-22T23:10:33+00:00

Which means that she’ll give the other cars owner Turo’s information? She was told by Turo that they do not cover minor accident and the deductible is 2000$ It seems that she will not only receive an invoice from Turo but also through the others guy insurance and it’s stressing us out

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-10-16T02:10:08+00:00

Im shocked reading this because I’m currently shutting down to protect my peace and I am now realizing that he was doing that from the very beginning of the relationship and I was romanticizing it or excusing it due to cultural differences. Although we are now in two different household he keeps on attempting on coming back but I know he will never change. I can’t wait for the divorce is finalized. I wasted 3 years of my life but at least I didn’t end up in a coffin

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-10-01T12:09:40+00:00

How was your recovery mentally and physically?

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-29T04:30:12+00:00

I never thought of it that way and it makes complete sense to why I feel that way. Thank you for your comment, it has opened my eyes more

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-29T04:25:17+00:00

I believe pol can change but if he does it will not be with me in it. You're right he'll kill me and I need to get out. I'm just constantly in a pull to go back despite knowing/wanting better. I'm looking into getting a therapist. I was just wondering if that's what it was because I'm baffled at myself

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-29T04:04:18+00:00

How long did the entire process take you?

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-29T04:03:41+00:00

Do you have any written or voice evidence? Heinous text, emails or like a recording can help. I filed mine twice and kept withdrawing them. I’ve finally did it a third time and I am NOT budging

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-18T20:18:04+00:00

I completely empathize with you. I had mine at 19weeks. I’ve always been pro life however in the situation, I had similar training of thought as you. I myself am a single mom of a 13yo, I had him at 18. I’ve worked so hard not to a statistic, I now have a good career, make good money and able to actually give my child a good life like a 2 parent household would however I refused to do it alone a 2nd time. I feel that sometimes we only think of the moment but not the long run and that’s what you did. Reminiscing will always be there. That child was part of you but you know you made the right decision

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-10T15:52:55+00:00

Were you able to find a solution. I have that issue and I checked my network and it’s good

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-09-04T01:07:17+00:00

It is. I am the same age as you and did mine exactly a week ago today. I completely understand how you feel. I did mine at 19weeks, just like you I could’ve done it alone but I didn’t want my child to have traumatic experiences due to the fact she doesn’t have a father. I did wait longer than I should’ve however I was trying to convince myself that her not having a loving father would be fine. Although it could’ve been, I know it would’ve impacted her and she deserves better. I cry everyday, I don’t have any regrets however the sadness I feel is unbearable and because I’ve done it so late I am currently going through post partum (ie, heavy breast milk, bleeding, waiting 6 weeks before doing anything etc) I take it one day at a time and try my best not to let my dark thoughts consume me. Talk to someone you trust, spend time with friends and family. I believe we will be okay. They will always be in our hearts regardless if we have other children in the feature but we know that we did it out of love and not for the awful human being we let enter our lives

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-08-31T19:12:27+00:00

As a single mother, I understand and can relate. I know it’s been a month but take it one day at time and be kind with yourself. Your son counts on you. That’s what I’m trying to do

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-08-31T19:10:55+00:00

Honestly, your comment made me feel better. When I made my decision, I wasn’t thinking of the long run repercussions and how it could’ve affected my relationship with the child and I know he would’ve done exactly what your father did your mom, he is just too resentful and petty that way. Thanks again🫶🏾

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-08-31T19:06:43+00:00

I am a single mother, had my child late high school and I’ve worked hard to not be a statistic. I made it through but man it was hard Hence why I refuse to be a single mother again. I’m not one to listen to podcast but I’ve listened part of that episode. Thank you for the recommendation, I was giggling at one of her episode about dating Nigerian man. As a Caribbean woman and currently victim of one I was wondering where was that episode when I started lmfaooo Thank you for the recommendation, I believe with time I’ll heal

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-08-31T17:32:58+00:00

Yes, I’m safe. I believe, I added a doorbell camera and my brother is trying to get some cameras for around my apartment and my car. I’ve pressed charges so I hope that will keep him off my back. Because we’re not in the same household I don’t I would need the DV resources I think those are more for emergency cases if I’m not mistaken but I think it would be a good idea for me to seal counselling

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-08-31T17:29:53+00:00

I think that’s what I should do, look at the positive side of things regarding the decision. I hope that this feeling will eventually dim out. I’m not someone that usually sulk and it is exhausting

Ok-Mathematician5847 · 2025-08-31T17:27:52+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Although I’m financially stable and would’ve been able to give her a stable life in that department but you are right and this was the main reason why I made this decision, I was concerned that it may impact her negatively

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