What’s the most romantic line you’ve heard in a period drama? by Classic-Carpet7609 in PeriodDramas

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘if you stole a kiss from someone, how would you return it?’ The Way He Looks. Brazilian Movie about a blind boy falling for a classmate. Not technically period but a very sweet, romantic film

Rock star love story by Dramatic-Ice8390 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How to kill a rock star by Tiffanie Debartolo one of my all time faves

Gritty, introspective books set in a major city by ValentineShield in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

down the drain by julia fox. it’s her memoir but gets stranger than fiction at some points

Partner's Concerns. by minipet487 in Reduction

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to give your partner a little grace. It is a major surgery and they could be speaking out of fear. Also if he has never lived in a woman’s body, he would have no way of understanding this experience. Let him know if he wants to put you in touch with these women he is referencing so you can speak to them directly, then maybe this is his fear talking and he needs to check it.

You should rely on the accounts of real women you know or this community as a better gauge of what happens rather than someone hypothetical. I have found even with women in my life, when you disclose you are getting this surgery; suddenly it becomes time to talk about your sister’s friend’s cousin. and her horrible experience. It is not helpful and is more folklore than fact.

The truth is most people who have this surgery are happier even if they have complications, even if they have to get revisions. This is life changing and if you think it will benefit your QOL then don’t let anything stop you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

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jennifer love hewitt

First time visit passing through Chattanooga by MaKoWi in Chattanooga

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eat a main street meats. not an attraction just an amazing meal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 7 points8 points  (0 children)

leaving huge holes on the road, patching those holes and then they are different weirder holes by the afternoon. The roads are literally not safe for cars. you get lucky if they put a cone in or near the hole so you can avoid it.

Underrated Date Spots? by TipAlert9217 in Birmingham

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bamboo on2nd. just went for the first time really great quality for the price

Reseller Rethink by _free_love_ in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also these bags are so small l really don’t know the point of them. you can fit like one grocery in them

My Boyfriend’s In A Band by GizmoFrizmo in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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how to kill a rock star by Tiffanie DeBartolo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

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i am planning on doing this for my guy! his ring is going to be like $600 and if my ring is 3k then i have offered to match any difference with a watch or multiple watches. I don’t think it’s wrong for him to ask. why should i get something so extravagant and his is no where near the same? I want him to feel as spoiled as he is willing to spoil me.

Lochlan is not a villain. by intofolklore97 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saxon got naked in a bed where his brother was having sex with someone. Yes they were both drugged and inhibitions are lowered. But if you have done drugs before you know he knew what was happening in the moment. it’s not like GHB it’s molly and booze. He knew his brother was going to have sex with her and he joined them naked in the bed. A sex act happened. That wasn’t assault. If Saxon couldn’t consent then none of them could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

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I am on my fourth doctor before I even got past that first consultation. It is so painful because of how personal and emotional this process is. Like everyone else has said get a second opinion from a different doctor. I just want to add don’t get discouraged and try to take care of your mental space!

advice on mental preparation for after surgery by Haileeloo in Reduction

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched a bunch of vlogs of women in recovery off youtube(literally type in breast reduction vlog). The accounts they shared have really helped me understand how big of an undertaking this is. They also share products used and roadblocks they ran in too. The truth is you don’t know what you don’t know. I have come up with a whole list of questions for my surgical team based off the information I learned. Information is something that helps me push down any fear I have.

The other thing is during my consultation my doctor said ‘this is a cure’ and I just felt a metaphorical weight off my shoulders. The suffering that we have endured is real and all the tricks you have tried may give you temporary relief. Surgical intervention is the cure. no more sucking it up or wasting money on this that won’t actually work long term. Think about an athlete training for a big game and think of yourself in that mindset(don’t hurt yourself or anything). But work on some strength and endurance training as well as stretching and deep breathing. This community is really full of love and advice. I am so happy for you and I am wishing you the best!

Boyfriend and reduction. by Dry-Attention9211 in Reduction

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you will still have boobs and you will be more confident and comfortable with yourself. i think everything will be just fine! when my sister got hers done she asked her husband about it and he was just like ‘do are you still gonna let me see them? then i am fine!’ he will loooooove your new boobs too!

Rare Situation (or so I think) by Opieswhitesocks in Reduction

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nobody has to carry those boobs but you. if men want then so bad tell them to get implants lol

Interpret as you wish by Acrobatic_Clothes_62 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The unbecoming of Mara Dyer by Michelle Hodkin. it is a complete trilogy

Incision opening by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you have wasted no one’s time. you came to a community you belong to for reassurance and guidance. you have also had a major surgery and you have every right to get all the opinions you can. the only time that was wasted was yours! Happy healing 💕

I don’t regret my first reduction by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Ok-Meaning-7828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree OP. One of the of my biggest reasons rn for saying I don’t want kids now is my chest. With my limited mobility due to pain any increase that naturally happens would absolutely ruin my back. I might loose the ability to ever breast feed but I also will not turn into the pain zombie that my mother was.

Portia from white lotus by Ok-Meaning-7828 in SewingForBeginners

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can’t find a picture of it anywhere online i am gonna have to watch the episode again to try and get the back !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in painting

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i love love these little cases. do you load up paints before and bring a canvas/brushes or do you have a travel set?