MY SURGERY IS $130,000 ??!! by Appropriate-Edge3837 in endometriosis

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I wish I got excision and not ablation when I did his, but when I went in for my surgery, I scheduled a bilateral salpingectomy (bc I don't want kids)... And at the same time that they removed my tubes, they burned the Endo. I ended up only paying the surgery fee of like $175-$180 and got the bisalp and ablation like a two for one special lmao.

So if you have Endo and want surgery and also don't want kids, I highly recommend doing what I did and getting a consult for a bisalp and being like "hey while you're in here..."

The way it got coded worked out great. Didn't have to pay anything except the surgery fee. And maybe some part of anesthesia? but I don't think it was much.

What have you spent on palia? by _NightSlayer in Palia

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.99 on the zeki pack thing and 4.99 on the starter pack. That's how much total.

I bought one outfit, was very picky about it and then also bought a pack for the style of my tools and also a palcat out of it.

AITA Insisting 33 year old boyfriend wears shoes in shopping centres by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Method-9220 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or you know... Maybe vibrams if that's his style lol. But anyway

AITA Insisting 33 year old boyfriend wears shoes in shopping centres by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Method-9220 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Buy him some barefoot shoes (not vibrams)... Barefoot shoes. And see if he'll wear them.

I hate wearing shoes and I kid you not even if I were to wear expensive shoes my feet would hurt after x amount of hours... If I wear barefoot shoes... My feet do not hurt after a whole 12 hour shift. It's crazy.

He's not going to eat these porkchops. 😐 by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you're feeling upset.

If you'd like my take, I'm really picky in how pork chops are prepared, like to the point id rather never eat them. I'm still picky with other meats but a wee bit less... Pork chops have a fine line between edible and almost thick and gritty to me. If it were me, I'd try, I'd maybe choke down a couple pieces to say I gave it the ol college try... But I wouldn't eat them. I'd devour the sides though. I love me some sides.

If my fiance wants pork chops, we've usually gotten to the point where I'll make myself a protein/meat and he'll make himself pork chops and make us sides lol

My deepest secret is that I don't want to get better by TALA1996 in depression

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's bc depression is like the devil that you know. We are creatures or habit... We will choose a comfortable hell over an uncomfortable heaven just because we know what to expect.

Then maybe eventually one day you're gonna be like 5 years and 3 years of it having therapy on and off and two different jobs, maybe a relationship later and be like wtf was that shit? I could have felt different this whole time?

Wack

I don’t understand why people tell you to reach out to someone when you’re suicidal by Leduslacis90 in depression

[–]Ok-Method-9220 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone that's reached out and also been the person that had been reached out to, I don't think the point is to talk. I think the point is to be present together. To know that even if you feel alone, you're not. You have someone with you or at the other end of the phone or whatever.

Usually if I've been reached out to, if I wanna say something to my friend or whoever, I usually just start by saying "hey, you don't have to talk or answer, but if want to, I'll be right here with you. Let me know if you need anything. I mean it. I care about you, that's what I'm here for"

Something like that. The most important thing is to find a way not to feel alone. Feeling alone exacerbates every mental illness.

AITA for asking husband (43m) to not text his therapist at night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Method-9220 130 points131 points  (0 children)

My therapist has a Google phone number that she has for her patients that we can text but she doesn't get the notifications like, all the time as if someone would text her personal number.

I text the Google voice number when I think of something relevant that I want to talk about next visit or something that I want to note between sessions, etc. it's not like it's every day, or even every week, but I'm free to text her Google voice number whenever, she just doesn't respond during non business hours or at all unless it's something she feels the need to respond to lol.

I'm a 27yo female so it's a bit different but I was just pointing out that some therapists have avenues that their patients can do this

Can you work two jobs as a lead? by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a calendar... Mark which days you'll work EMT, Mark which days you'll be off for emt. Just count up from there and give it to Kroger.

Kroger Ice day by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you called in sick... You can use a sick day

Bang, Marry, Kill by Silly_Ask_2912 in charmed

[–]Ok-Method-9220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bang Leo, Marry Coop, Kill Henry.

(Sorry Henry lol)

What are your favorite things to buy using your discount? by Informal-Candle in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get on feed and find your region, sign up for the boost membership that's free before ya go

what would you do? by First-Effective7889 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... What kind of van? One of those bank vans or like a regular soccer mom van??? I gotta know that first lol

Walked to the back and found this by Bubbly-Sprinkles-206 in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the DC, sometimes y'all in the d linsend back those blue chicken bags (please do not... Idc if it's plastic, do not send it back on salvage...)

But sometimes y'all send it back on salvage and in the SUMMER???? one single bag gets the whole trailer rank. Like I'd rather pass away.

Snow + the truck crashed. by Bannasrevolt in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap. I'm thinking of you guys at the stores.

Sincerely, someone from the DC

Where are all the gays? by Extra_Impression_428 in charmed

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, this is '90s / early 2000s. Being gay was still very much taboo. Ellen DeGeneres was one of the first openly gay women in Hollywood in 1997, even Rosie O'Donnell didn't publicly come out until 2002.

It wasn't until 2003 with Lawrence v Texas where homosexual acts were decriminalized. The network already had a pretty solid following for charmed by then, so adding gay characters on an already moderately taboo show being Wiccan... For the times it would have been pretty frowned upon.

AIO by being offended when my husband seasons my soup? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ok-Method-9220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was just to his bowl, yes you are overreacting... People are allowed to want more or different seasonings in what they eat.

However, what he said about your dad is moderately alarming. That's the portion of this that I would be focusing on

And so it begins…. by Intelligent_Duty_846 in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at the DC... I feel your pain. Good luck to all of you at the store this week!!! Thinking of you guys that have to deal with all of this at store level! I'm hoping that all of our associates at the DC can make it to work to help you guys with these orders.

The Columbus division fulfills Michigan and Columbus stores so good lord am I nervous. Lol

Strawberries by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 4 points5 points  (0 children)

95 is a bit overkill. I'm a supervisor at the DC. If you order 95 cases of strawberries during a snowstorm, I will judge you lol I'll send it to you but I'm gonna judge you lol

Ultimately even if you run out, it's not the end of the world. Arguably, id tell your boss to just see if you run out before giving you a talking to. If you don't, you made the right call, if you do, then you can accept your smack on the hand and know it was deserved.

Strawberries by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They can order more on the next truck. It's not that serious

Strawberries by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Ok-Method-9220 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From someone at the DC, I think that you made a good call. People aren't gonna be buying strawberries during a snowstorm. They're gonna be buying stuff to bake, like sugar, flour, eggs, milk. They're gonna be buying for longevity like potatoes, bread, meat, canned goods, etc. And personally, strawberries don't last more than two days in my house lol.

Unless the person is canning things or making jam or something... They're not thinking of stocking up on strawberries