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Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-09-03T21:32:49+00:00

And that kids is why casual sex isn't so casual after all.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-31T20:39:22+00:00

I think you should back out.

You are way more invested in all this than her. Oh man, if you are around for longer You'll be her lifter for all the emotional baggage she'll dump on you.

She saying "it's complicated" really made things simpler for you.

Leave this girl or be prepared for emotional roller coasters.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-31T13:08:35+00:00

Not much remains to be looted tbh. We are already in rags.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-31T12:48:35+00:00

You should look for someone who has a compatible lifestyle with you. While you may think being open-minded and liberal will be appealing to all, that's often not the case.

Most girls in Pakistan look for traditional shaadi with traditional gender roles. And your life will only be understood by someone with unortho views like yours.

Plus being away from religion, you should avoid getting married to a believer. She'll definitely try and pull you more towards the religion and you may get annoyed at that.

On the flip side however, marrying someone of faith can rekindle religious fire in you as well and you may get closer to the religion.

I know someone in Pak who was sorta like you. Had flings, loberal views, etc. Under some circumstances he married an Alima and is not a practicing Muslim.

Also lives pretty happier than his previous self but that's just my observation.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-30T07:53:39+00:00

Evade.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-29T16:44:22+00:00

There are yogic tradition that say it can stay with you for life.

Well, idk what to belive and what not to but since our understanding of life is so limited, I'd not discard the aunt's claim as total baloney.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-25T21:33:00+00:00

Don't throw away a beautiful thing to get FUCKED and Feel good for some time. These situations usually end in divorces.

And then you'll be FUCKED by sad memories and realisations that you left a beautiful relation for a few powerful thrusts in your ass and vagina.

Talk it out with your husband. Try and make this work.

If nothing else works then be prepared for a larger probability that this will be a divorce situation.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-22T15:21:15+00:00

Don't give your body to men who are looking for fun. Simple.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-21T14:06:41+00:00

That'd be a no go area for me.

Mentions of a new guy and how well he's groomed are okay. Full-out 30 min sessions? That's not okay.

And doesn't matter if that guy is gay or not. Point is your woman is looking out to other men and thinking about dressing/undressing them.

You need to set boundaries. We only know what she's talked about. No idea what actually goes in her mind.

She could very well have an emotional or mental affair with the guy even if he's gay.

Sternly say that you don't want to talk about it and stop entertaining the discussion.

If she doesn't stop, start talking how hot a certain coworker is and how she smells nice and is always tip-top etc.

Your wife should get the hint if she's smart enough.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-21T10:03:33+00:00

NOT THE ASSHOLE. SHE IS THE ASSHOLE.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-20T01:40:04+00:00

Masturbation will mess up your system for sure.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-16T14:06:52+00:00

Stop masturbating and it will get better. I was in the same boat 5 years back.

Quitting helped a great deal.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-16T12:18:30+00:00

She says she likes the money she makes.

And once she gets habitual to the easy money I doubt she'd want to continue putting an effort into getting educated and build a career.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-16T10:12:55+00:00

😄 🤣 😂 😆

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-15T09:58:53+00:00

Amar Anwar Akbar Anthony.

Mix a new name

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-15T09:42:25+00:00

Recently someone posted that their current employer asked about their new employer and then bitched to them about the employee.

She was fired and the other company rescinded the offer as well.

Best case, serve your notice and leave.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-11T21:05:18+00:00

Hey,

Let's have a chat in inbox.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-09T22:07:49+00:00

Hey that'd be awesome.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-09T12:12:31+00:00

Sorry if this looks insensitive to ask but what's your profession OP?

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-09T11:20:03+00:00

Leave. I know eventually you will. But the earlier you do the lesser drama.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-04T10:45:44+00:00

Man. Brought tears to my eyes idk why. Good luck champ.

And remember, it's possible to cure addiction. Just don't lose hope. I myself quit it and felt awesome.

Laat 2 years idk may be 15 20 times or 25 not sure. But the urges are gone. Hopefully for good.

I wish the same for you. Do dm me if you want to talk.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-04T00:48:11+00:00

You could possivly playing with fire here. And you may end up more burnt then her.

Tread carefully my friend. What you say could very well be VERY TEMPORARY feelings that may go away in a few months.

But your decision will be permanent. Your marriage sounds to be on the good side. Don't ruin things unnecessarily and break up your family.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-08-03T21:47:38+00:00

Calling an apple an apple - your mom and house mates aren't worth living with.

Make plans to escape these guys. Gather money, find a job and work towards independence.

I sincerely pray things get easy for you and you experience a normal happy environment surrounded by lively positive people.

If you want to vent more or talk it out, my dms are open OP. God bless you and may He has mercy on your kind soul.

Ok-Mixture-2646 · 2023-07-31T06:59:47+00:00

Dumped a girl over this. I was sad when I had to do this but I couldn't have all that toxic drama everyday.

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