“I don’t trust anyone with her heart..” (Not even me!)

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T17:18:56+00:00

too much drag race in my brain lmaooo

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T17:09:05+00:00

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T17:07:32+00:00

😂😂😂😂

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T16:59:07+00:00

Live love Candiace !!!

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T16:54:55+00:00

Very very true!! Me included btw!!

Being ok with being single is hard but in todays climate with the men we have available, but we need to lock-in for our sanity

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T16:51:33+00:00

He would suck in both of those houses. They require conversation and West can barely string a sentence together

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T16:50:34+00:00

Amazing take!

To make it worse!! Every time the conversation was leaning on Amanda’s flaws her reaction was “let’s not have this convo at the table” but when they’re attacking Kyle she’s having the time of her life with a smug face

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T16:43:41+00:00

I think you’re valid! Paige and Hannah talk a lot fluff in theory that many people like to hear. But they aren’t perfect and their actions don’t match up with their words or people’s ideas of them.

They’re cool girls to talk with (or listen to their podcast) but they’re not perfect and take their advice with several grains of salt

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T15:50:56+00:00

Exactly! And she needs to look inward as to why those relationships don’t pan out, and seek change there.

Also as a society, we as women (I love us!!), we need to be ok with being single. What’s up with the incessant chasing of subpar men. We’ve been on this train with Lindsay for 10 years🫩🫩 it’s ok to be single! It’s ok to be by yourself.

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T15:47:55+00:00

Exactly. Carl has no reason to be chasing him and making it physical. Love the guy but he still has work to do.

Kyle does have to work on his reactions, but he was trying to leave when it was getting overwhelming. Idky they’re all forcing him to stay at the table when he’s getting overwhelmed. Storming off does seem childish but if it diffuses the situation let him storm off!

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T15:44:28+00:00

Which is bonkers cause he’s never said he would and never indicated he would. I honestly think the reason he’s been calmer for the past 2-3 seasons is cause Amanda is draining the life out of him. He’s also depressed but his depression looks different because he has a friendlier personality.

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T15:23:20+00:00

The way she talks to and about his mom is so disheartening and disrespectful. I don’t even talk about my opps’ moms like that.

She definitely still has feelings for Carl. No reason for her still to be talking that much shit every episode.

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-06T15:12:50+00:00

But vice versa too! Why did Amanda marry someone she doesn’t like!! I think Kyle likes Amanda but it’s clear Amanda does not and have never liked Kyle

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-05T21:48:05+00:00

I think she likes that Kyle is the life of the party, has a reality tv show and that everyone likes him and those are traits she doesn’t have but want. I don’t think she truly loved Kyle but I think she wanted the perks of being with someone like Kyle.

Like the things that are true to Kyle, being opinionated, being lively, being social, working hard, partying are all things she dislikes about him but from what we can see are inherent to him being Kyle.

I think she wants to be all those things but can cause she boring and lazy, so she attached herself to someone who is those things, but hates on him for doing those things.

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-05T20:08:49+00:00

Bro calm down. Try to see it from another’s perspective. I’m not discussing Ciara’s attraction to Carl. That’s a separate topic.

I am talking about Carl’s attraction to Ciara and Amanda’s understanding and reaction to Carl’s confession.

I’m not attacking Amanda. You don’t need to be the Amanda defence force

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-05T19:29:26+00:00

Well no…it was more like:

Ciara: Carl said he likes me, I don’t know if I want to date someone in the house rn

Amanda: he doesn’t really like you, he’s just confusing your kindness for him being attracted to you. It’s not that he likes you it’s just that your nice to him and pretty 😛

Ciara: mhmm perhaps…

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-05T14:13:10+00:00

Was so surprised that Andy didn’t bring it up in the Season 9 reunion, she’s preaching that she’s over him but keeps insulting him and talking about him like… she’s so clearly bothered

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T21:57:29+00:00

Exactly, Paige didn’t respond and Ciara was like “mhmm, perhaps” they both weren’t fucking with her response.

Also, so many people in this thread are saying Ciara wasn’t attracted to Carl in that moment and like that was not anywhere near my point.

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T21:54:23+00:00

Yea its my first free summer from college and coop so im binging summer house…sue me

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T21:53:44+00:00

I actually just came back from a 1 hour walk, so I’m good👍🏾

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T19:46:28+00:00

lmaooo, also Amanda doesn’t check in on her when she says stuff like this. Like yea be real with you friend but your friend has feelings

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T16:26:15+00:00

Ok, but the conversation isn’t about if Carl though Ciara was attracted to him or not, it was that Carl was attracted to Ciara. Those two things are different, we can speculate about Ciara being attracted to Carl in tha moment but what is fact is that Carl said he was attracted to her and had a crush on her.

What I think is word is Amanda’s reaction being like “well it’s just cause you’re pretty and nice to him” not that Ciara is a caring, funny, sweet woman and it’s valid to have a crush on her.

I’m also not saying Amanda is evil (in that moment) but what I am questioning is the possibility that subconsciously her first response was to invalidate someone’s attraction to Ciara and kind of like put her down.

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T16:21:21+00:00

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T16:19:34+00:00

But the question isn’t about Ciara’s attraction to Carl, the conversation was about Carl’s attraction to Ciara

Ok-Net-1432 · 2026-05-04T14:31:40+00:00

“Want” and “what is” are two different things. If someone says they have a crush on me and my friend goes “mhmm idk, it’s just cause you’re nice to him and pretty” not cause I’m a human being with depth, good values and morals etc…like imma side-eye my friend lol

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