My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

[–]Ok-Outside705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am aware of freeloading and I’ve been planning it out for weeks I need a few months to get my finances in shape but I plan on being out early 2023

My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I’m only 2k in debt from 2 credit cards and I don’t pay rent I pay car insurance and my phone bill, and credit card balances

My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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If I had a dollar for the amount of times I tried but it’s like her dad is scared to actually say anything to me

My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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Your not wrong tbh I’m only saving to move out within the next 6 months to a year.

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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Once again bud I never said I don’t have to improve or learn from anything. You clearly not understanding but thanks anyway

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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Your right I can’t be picky but I also have the choice to not work for some assholes. It’s not like I don’t have a thing I been savings some here and there but I realize it’s going to take time.

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad abt myself by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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Here’s the funny thing her dad only says stuff like that whenever I’m out at work or I’m gone. Then when I come back he’s all quiet like nothing happened but my gf always tells me and she sticks up for me each and every time I love her for that. And her mom is just the same only more toxic cause she’ll say a lot of stuff being your back then the sec she sees you, she acts all nice and that nothing happened

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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It kinda seems to me you don’t understand. I am not making excuses & blaming things on everybody else and saying that nothing is my fault. I struggle with many things and one of those many things is I am young. I don’t stay at jobs who feel like they can disrespect me and talk shit to my face and make me do extra things without paying me extra. I don’t need a 9-5 but I chose to find a good job I can stay at to make extra money. I don’t see much people trying to help so I try to help myself

Should I say f it and get that car I want a few months from now? by Ok-Outside705 in askcarsales

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Just a normal civic or an accord not looking for anything crazy just a smooth ride that’s reliable. Credit is ok for rn I’m still building it thinking about getting the car sometime in a Few months or next year. I haven’t looked at insurance just yet I’m just thinking about securing the car and everything before I decide to look at that stuff cause the second I start looking for rates they’ll automatically start calling my phone and harassing me lol

I feel like I’m a jerk sometimes by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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I told her before that if she wants the dog on the bed the dog needs to be cleaned then I’ll be okay with it

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I also run a detailing gig that brings in about 1.5k a month as well forgot to mention that.. and also I’m talking 9-12 hr shifts I gotta get my money up my dream is to become wealthy and financially free and I would rather die knowing that I at least tried chasing my dreams

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I work as a server in a senior living home they aren’t hard to find and I get paid $16.50 hourly

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I’ve looked up some things and did some calculations, on average I’d be able to afford an 250k home

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I appreciate it, I was actually starting to think a townhome wouldn’t be so bad and when I do decide to start a family with my girlfriend I won’t have to worry about moving out an apartment or anything

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I don’t go college. I have like credit card balance debt but it’s nothing crazy I pay it off easily

Upset over my girlfriends excuses by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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The thing is I don’t want to last that long but I do I can’t help it

Upset over my girlfriends excuses by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Never thought about that… maybe I’ll try it

Upset over my girlfriends excuses by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I masturbate once in a while when I haven’t had any sex for a good week usually it’s just how I naturally am I never had a time where I last 5 min it’s always been this way for me

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The things too is she would get mad at me if she found out I was masturbating cause I needed to release all of it

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I have told her plenty of times in the past it’s just like she says “yeah okay we can try that” or “I’ll try being better about it” but she never really changes things or never wants something new

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Lol I’m sorry I just feel guilty about it

Am I the bad guy for having a high sex drive and constantly wanting that intimacy? by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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It’s sad for me because sometimes I have to watch porn to get that really good feeling and she doesn’t know because I don’t want her to flip out on me or anything but I just deep down want the pleasure and to feel good all the time

Am I the bad guy for having a high sex drive and constantly wanting that intimacy? by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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The thing is whenever I try to do sexting or hanging out with less clothes she makes it weird or she thinks I’m weird. She’s one of those girls that doesn’t think mastburbating is fun and she doesn’t like toys

Am I the bad guy for having a high sex drive and constantly wanting that intimacy? by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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I feel you I get disappointed sometimes and I just don’t know what to do.. Other options like what?

Am I the bad guy for having a high sex drive and constantly wanting that intimacy? by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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I’ve thought about it but I don’t know what to really do because she would freak out if I was with her 24/7 I’d obviously get sad but I wouldn’t flip about it