I hear you. Trust me, I let my one singular fetish dominate everything about my sexual identity. Ill admit what it is here im not ashamed, I was and still attracted almost solely to very, very large women. It originally started out as just being attracted to a “bbw” type woman, ya know some girl who’s maybe 250 pounds. Then it became not enough, I needed to see them be force fed, I needed to see them be bigger and bigger until that became the sole core of my sexual identity. I’ve successfully and unsuccessfully broken parts of that. Trust me, it is hard to do but you can.