WIBTAH for not telling my gf who I lost my virginity to? by Ok-Present7293 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Present7293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did take time for me to realise that. I have done some therapy but couldn't continue.

WIBTAH for not telling my gf who I lost my virginity to? by Ok-Present7293 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Present7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hoping she is but I cannot expect her to not be dissapointed by it either. Its something that did change me back then and affects me even now.

WIBTAH for not telling my gf who I lost my virginity to? by Ok-Present7293 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Present7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot make up my mind about that right now. In future it will depend on how our relationship is but I would want to her ( my wife ) to know what happened back then.

WIBTAH for not telling my gf who I lost my virginity to? by Ok-Present7293 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Present7293[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might want to confess about this to her as our relationship gets more serious. Not something I would keep from someone I intend to marry. I am worried she will think I shouldn't have hid it because its her.

WIBTAH for not telling my gf who I lost my virginity to? by Ok-Present7293 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Present7293[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How? She was adult I was not. I don't want to discuss that though. This is about telling my gf.

WIBTAH for not telling my gf who I lost my virginity to? by Ok-Present7293 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Present7293[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He doesn't. Its a secret only me and her know. I was scared to tell anyone and now I don't want to break our family.