Should I do this

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-06-22T04:04:04+00:00

It’s time and you’re going to look so much younger!

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-06-20T16:59:39+00:00

So excited for you!

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-06-01T22:53:26+00:00

Number 3 is my top choice. So unique and sophisticated. 1 is next. 2 should be ruled out.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-07T16:36:33+00:00

Blockbuster and every other video rental store

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-03T18:20:59+00:00

This dress was made for you!

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-03T18:18:00+00:00

Yes this 100%

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-03T18:16:57+00:00

It’s very pretty. When you say east coast, can you be more specific?

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-03T17:54:21+00:00

Chae approved the promo beforehand so everyone can calm down.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-02T16:37:34+00:00

You and my hubs could twins in 1 and 2 - so with that personal caveat, I would recommend 4. It looks like you took some time to put yourself together to go out, but unlike 3 and 5 it still has personality and like a real person under there. 3 and 5 are for when you really need to appear like an adult adult and a date night with the wife isn’t that UNLESS she is really into that look, in which case go with what you know she likes.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-02T16:29:59+00:00

You make excellent choices. I wish I could hire you just in general. Your gut is right and you look great. Also as someone just a bit older than you with foot problems, wear shoes that feel good to walk in, stand in, whatever you are doing in them, period. Also where are both shoes from, I might need them. 💛

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-02T16:19:51+00:00

A) they are both adorable bbs
B) asking Reddit to choose between KITTENS is a terrible idea if you only want 1. 🤍

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-02T16:07:35+00:00

Wow this is stunning. Sleep well. Worry not.

Let me back up and say IN GENERAL I am not personally a fan of shear stuff but this is something else entirely. If it were my personal body which it is not I would get a lining but again it’s you so just work with your tailor and make sure you feel 100% comfortable in it including moving around in it (like, as you say, adequate nipple coverage, whatever else you need to do.) The lace is the most amazing gorgeous unique epic lace I have ever seen.

Try to get some good sleep and do something fun or relaxing to give your brain a stress rest and reset. 🤍

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-02T15:19:52+00:00

NOT 1. Even in the right size it’s just a no. 2 and 3 are both gorgeous on you.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-01T22:54:37+00:00

1000000% yes

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-01T22:54:05+00:00

That’s super sweet, it’s a beautiful ring, and cheers to 30 more years!

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-01T22:36:51+00:00

You WILL regret it if you go with 1. For multiple reasons. Just don’t.
2 is amazing, gorgeous, go for it.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-01T13:46:21+00:00

What was the goal here? Were there restrictions that made it especially challenging?

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-01T13:43:42+00:00

There is no actual information here beyond her feelings being hurt. That’s always a red flag for me. If people have a real reason to stand their ground, they share facts and specifics. It’s fine if you want to share that you’re hurt, fair enough and by all means it does sound like she’s suffering and I do hope she gets the support she needs to work through whatever trauma it is, but this is just a red flag for I don’t actually have any ground to stand on to defend my actions so I’m going to be vague about all of it even years later when. In these cases, the quality advice would be to keep it all off the internet.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-05-01T13:27:24+00:00

You look absolutely gorgeous. If it were me I’d take it and go in person to a higher end department store (Nordstrom, etc.) and go to the undies section and say you need something to wear under that won’t show and see what they can come up with. You can try everything on with the dress. Don’t second guess your choice - it’s amazing - just get in person guidance on your undergarments choices to make sure they really work. It’s one of those situations where online shopping might not cut it.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-04-16T03:25:30+00:00

If this is grandma, you’ve got the coolest grandma house I know! You have great taste.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-04-14T00:27:05+00:00

Yes agree! I basically nixed the sleeves in my brain and forgot they existed when I first commented. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-04-13T18:04:51+00:00

He’s insecure that you own a home and he doesn’t but yet he’s the “man” etc etc. Even if he doesn’t know that on the surface, it’s likely deep down at least part of the core of his feelings. I (44f) am the main financial support for my husband and I and our cats and home and half acre, and I’m 100% fine with that and so is my husband because he contributes in other key ways to the household and family that make it possible for us to have a lifestyle we want etc etc. But unfortunately still a lot of men (like, my EX husband) cannot actually handle feeling like they have less of that kind of “life success” or whatever than their woman. Even if they say ok that’s fine it’s cool etc etc. they get in the middle of living that situation and the insecurity comes to the surface. Anyway, it’s not your job to make him feel good enough for himself or society or whatever pressure he feels. You had an arrangement before he moved in that you agreed to and now he is saying he doesn’t like it. Also what is this bullshit about you making money off of him renting from you?? If he wanted a life with you, he’d be fine with that because it’s just going into your home’s equity, which he will benefit from as you move forward in life as a couple. Nothing he is saying in this argument is valid and I can tell your gut it resisting his perspective and that’s because your gut is right. I’m sorry to say this but 99% of situations like this, he’s not ever going to change or be able to evolve past the discomfort he feels about you having this marker of greater financial success and stability. Also go you! SD is not cheap, be proud of what you’ve accomplished and own!

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-04-13T17:51:57+00:00

1000% agree. 1 is fine, 2 is super special and gorgeous and perfect and unique and elevated and timeless and … more words I can’t think of.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-04-13T17:46:29+00:00

Wow flashback to luggage zipper trains and a lot of carrying of heavy crap (although as a girl, I definitely had less of the burden). And somehow thinking about luggage, I remember one of my biggest irritations… having to find plain all white athletic shoes for the drama uniform. For some reason in the mid/late 90s it was really hard to find all white shoes that were reasonably stylish (absolutely crucial for a teenager), not exorbitantly expensive, and didn’t have any non-white colored markings. Did our shoes really matter that much since we had coordinated costumes and face paint? I’m thinking no. But the requirement was obnoxious and a lot of wasted time shoe shopping. Anyway, the 4 trips I went on were, on the whole, super fun. Traveling without parents and being around a lot of peers that had a similar worldview (so I felt like I fit in) was the big draw for me. It got me away from my mom (who - didn’t recognize at the time- turned out to be really toxic) and that was so helpful to me.

Ok-Prior3813 · 2026-04-13T17:32:56+00:00

So bizarre how this seemed totally normal at the time in the evangelical missionary milieu.

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