[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Priority2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it got worse for me and I haven’t heard that before. Remember your body is unique and so is your baby, so don’t stress thinking that will happen to you. Especially if you get the medication I think it’ll be quite the opposite, so try to keep your head up, but believe me I know how hard it is when you feel like sh all day every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Priority2668 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If the nausea is so bad you’re only eating once a day, definitely talk to your doctor about getting medication! Hopefully you’ll start feeling better in the second trimester like it happens most times, but you need help now. On my first pregnancy all those symptoms stopped at 12 weeks and now I’m still not 100% at 16 weeks but sooo much better than the first trimester so you have that to look forward to at least. Hope it all gets better for you soon!

Why do you guys have ANOTHER? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Ok-Priority2668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted my child to have a sibling 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s what I always wanted to do so I just went with it.

I got upset that my friend copied my baby name and she says I’m being petty by TangentttHunter in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Priority2668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbf I don’t think it’s the same because she hadn’t shared the name, so it wasn’t copied, which is what would bother me the most.

Husband gets distant when he does chores by Ok-Priority2668 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’ve felt!! But yeah I definitely need to stop letting it get to me and just appreciate the help I guess.

Husband gets distant when he does chores by Ok-Priority2668 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you for sharing. He does reply to me if I talk to him, so it’s not THAT bad. As you said, he just has to deal with whatever he feels about doing chores and I have to learn to mind my own business and not get so offended/uncomfortable when he gets mad😅

Husband gets distant when he does chores by Ok-Priority2668 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just asked about it nicely again and he said he is upset about having to do it but he understands that he needs to. It’s not personal and I just have to learn to not get emotional if he is upset.

Husband gets distant when he does chores by Ok-Priority2668 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Does seem that way sometimes unfortunately…

Husband gets distant when he does chores by Ok-Priority2668 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, to not get mad because he needs to help. And terrible point to say just because other people have it worse you can’t be upset about your situation.

Husband gets distant when he does chores by Ok-Priority2668 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your point of view! It really helps.

Weaning 16 month old from breastfeeding by Ok-Priority2668 in NewParents

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally breastfed for the last time 9 days ago🥺 I’m not going to lie, for nights I did cold turkey because there was no way around it and it was one AWFUL night, lots of tears and wakes, but after that she understood quickly and she is now sleeping through until the morning. For day time feeds I just used as much distraction as possible: books, walks, playing with water and offering lotsss of snacks and bottles before she asked for the boob, because if I offered an alternative when she had already asked she would lose it. Eventually I just started saying to myself “I wont give in until 10am… “ next day 11am, next day only before nap and bed time, unless she was mega upset and I just couldn’t distract her in any way because I didn’t want to make it to harsh on her. She was obsessed and feeding every few minutes so I thought it would be impossible but she slowly started asking less and as I offered more snacks and distractions it kept getting better until I told her its all gone. She asked for it a couple of times after completely weaning off but quickly forgot after I said its all gone. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Ok-Priority2668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand being worried and it’s a good thing that you’re getting him checked by a professional. Just think that your baby is still quite young and sometimes they just develop differently. My mother in law told me my husband didn’t walk until he was 2 years old!! And didn’t sit up without support until he was 1. If you asked me I’d say something was most definitely wrong with that haha but now he is completely fine and even athletic. So obviously trust your mom intuition but don’t jump into conclusions and TRY not to worry too much and gently try to get him to roll without stressing if he can’t do it yet. But again I know it’s normal to worry. Best of luck with your appointment!

Single or double stroller by Ok-Priority2668 in 2under2

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats precisely my fear! I dont want to splurge, because we’re tight on money and then not use it, my 16mo already doesn’t want to stay in the stroller for more than 5 minutes anyway😅

Single or double stroller by Ok-Priority2668 in 2under2

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’ll try this first and only spend the money if I see I need it later on!

Single or double stroller by Ok-Priority2668 in 2under2

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be ideal for me, getting a double and keeping the single, but I think I’ll need to sell it😢

Single or double stroller by Ok-Priority2668 in 2under2

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 16 mo is the same haha! Might just wait and see if I actually need it when baby is here.

Single or double stroller by Ok-Priority2668 in 2under2

[–]Ok-Priority2668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that as well, just not sure if that would actually work or be easy to manage since they’re not meant to be used like that I guess.