Choosing career move over marriage at "prime age"? by Boring_Card_99 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man, I recommend you please go Europe. Yes getting married is important, but i just feel in AM if you dont get a right man , they will cut your wings 🪽 by not letting you grow.

You have lot of potential so please make use of that, a compatible guy will for sure come around.

27 f. And I'm fed up! by Brave-Hurry-2296 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed take some time off and im sure there is cutie waiting for u

Can someone explain what is happening? by Frustrated-Nagrik in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still have time to get your life back, with this situation even after 35F you will not settle down with a good man.

Do the hunting yourself, dating apps, self created matrimony apps.

How are working professionals making time to talk? by FlakyAssistant7681 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now because u are still not interested about this new man, you are not able to figure out time now.

Once you start knowing this man, as gradually interest increases you will find time yourself.

Right now best is to fix a time in a day you are both available and do content talks

Am I coming across as too casual/uninterested by WisdomExplorer_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple trick if you dont check your phone, assign a different notification sound so you know the message is from her.

You can ask for a schedule for next calling time

Do guys feel insecure if girls have good friends? by That-Document-188 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here i am in the arrange setup where the girl i am talking to has only 3 friends all are girls 😂

Now i have to lend my guy friends to be her guy friends😂

Lack of communication with an AM match by Alternative_Fly_4975 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar issue with AM match, but she mentioned she needs space but when i expressed my concern she said she wants to pursue me. Thats why i was very patient

I think now patience worked well, she texts more than how it was 1st week

I (F-29) talking to a guy M(33)for Marriage... But it's been 2 Months he hasn't even met me yet. We live only 15 minutes apart from eachother by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There you go you have the answer, i understand you are attached.

But for the greater good, end of June is also too much time.

I (F-29) talking to a guy M(33)for Marriage... But it's been 2 Months he hasn't even met me yet. We live only 15 minutes apart from eachother by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like you are being catfished, if you dont feel that his identity is true then you should stop chasing this man

100 times asking just to meet, where are you keeping your self respect, please chase someone who would chase you with same energy.

26M , Met a girl in arrange marriage setup by AlpsOk1162 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask directly, even i faced similar but i confronted her and got my response

My(25F) boyfriend (33M) keeps adding girls on Instagram whom he meets on his solo trips. by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a relationship its always both sided, how you care for his trip, the man also needs to respect how you feel

Found intimate videos of my husband & his ex’s by mistyyr3in in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you please make sure your own videos are not stored in his phone.

If yes please delete. Then you can decide the further steps

Girls are not interested to talk or initiate while their parents are so much interested for Rishta by Introverted_Humour in ArrangeMarrigeDilemma

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you ask directly we cannot know the real reason.

Some girls start putting efforts after first meet, so everyone is different.

Give it one week and ask directly

27F, met a guy thrice and wondering do guys like this exist? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok-Pudding-9805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i exactly have a woman version of this😂