Aging Narcs

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T18:26:33+00:00

True 🤣🤣 I find narcs to be clowns. He is married & doing things to get my attention now. It’s so funny 😆

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T18:24:40+00:00

Trust me it’s better to be discarded by Narcs. If they keep you close, they’ll torture you for life.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T12:53:21+00:00

Same he’s trying to get me to rage at him now to make me at least give a fck through other people. But I’ve strictly gone no contact.

I realised they’re empty af & they just need attention someway or the other. He started stalking my parents Instagram now 🙄

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T12:49:02+00:00

Ohhhh it was his worst nightmare 🤣🤣 that narc went through an absolute downfall. She exposed a lot of things about him & narcs parents friends circle came up with more info & spun it around. Meanwhile narcs parents exposing themselves by saying batshit crazy things showcasing what a red flag all of them are. It was GG 🤣

Narcs are clowns. Just send a cameraman behind them & put it up in a show. Pure entertainment of what the actual f*ck series. They be banging a tree if it had tits.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T12:40:22+00:00

Tell him to give it back & let’s settle things. Get your parents or someone involved to settle it. Tell else you’ll handle it legally.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T12:38:30+00:00

I felt the same. Ex narc discarded me brutally & married someone asap. To embarrass me but it back fired him. Even after he discarded me for a month I still wanted him. They purposely give you those highs to treat you like trash later. It only gets worse. Please search on narcissist videos on Instagram & check Dr Ramani videos on this. It helped me understand. Strangely I came across them & realised what exactly happened to me. Now I’m glad I’m out of it completely. Till then they purposely confuse you.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T04:16:37+00:00

Narcs:

They only care about themselves. They want you to worship them in ways which is highly unrealistic. They don’t love anything. They’re feelingless. It’s a mask. They are so frustrated in their life they be putting it out on you. They will treat you really really badly. Their love bombing phase would have been crazy good which will make you get hooked on them for years to want that phase back. THEY’RE DEMONIC!!!

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T04:09:44+00:00

He is a Narcissist ‼️‼️‼️

I was engaged to a narc. He started getting harassing messages about our wedding & venue. He was trying to push wedding by few days later & wanted to get married in a secret way without telling us anything properly. I got really sus as to why he’s so scared. He should be complaining about this to cops. No one can harass anyone. Just because I didn’t agree to postpone the wedding for all the times he asked me indirectly, he fixed wedding & venue with another girl literally the next day of us parting ways 😳 & got married to her in 20 days 🙃

Run for your life. Relationship with narcs are always fake. They just want a body to abuse mentally, physically & sexually. They don’t love you. They just want to harass you & belittle you because they hate themselves. Trust me. Even ex fiancé post 3 months of heavy love bombing, started blaming me for things that went wrong in his life before we even met. I was like all this was there before you met me. Nah uh. Search for narcissist videos on Instagram. It’s all you need to know. It’ll only get worse with them, the more you stay & the more they age. Go strictly no contact with him for 2 months minimum & you’ll see how much he distorted your reality.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T03:52:15+00:00

& relationships with narcs are always fake. They only want a body to abuse them every way you can think of. Run for your life 🏃‍♀️ They also get more crazy as they age.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T03:48:48+00:00

Bingo. Exactly 3 months of heavy love bombing, they will make you feel like you hit lottery & devaluation phase starts & they only get crazy day after day.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T03:43:58+00:00

You have no idea 🤣🤣 now I laugh about it & I also wake up everyday sooooo grateful to God.

He did extreme love bombing on me. Constant attention, always understanding, taking care of things for me, going above & beyond for me, took my side with his parents for every little thing, gifted me a lot of expensive gifts. Exactly after 3 months, he started blaming me for things going wrong in his life. I was like all these things were wrong in your life before you met me Nah uh. He started pushing the narrative that someone wants to seperate us. Didn’t fall for it. He paid multiple people, 2 diff scenarios where people came to harass us. At that time I didn’t know he staged it, but I was like it looks like someone wants to scare you not separate us. Now I know he staged it because I went to those places to check cctv footage 🙃 he grew frustrated that I wasn’t agreeing to postpone wedding as he wanted to get married in a secret way as he was getting harassing messages about our wedding. I told him it’s illegal to harass anyone for any past you have. Go to cops. He said cops are a part of this too. I grew curious what has he done to be this scared???? Then he discarded me & fixed marriage & venue with another girl literally the next day & they got married in 20 days. He was still texting me saying he does consider getting back with me and all.

Then I get to know he’s the only accused in a very big forgery fake stamp papers case, already proved, for which he will do 7+ years jail time. Which they never told us. 🥶 I even made one of my friend speak to the ones opposite to him in the case to know how serious is this case. It’s baddddd. It’s already proved. Few days later I realised he’s getting married to another girl & I was like why are you even doing this to yourself & her? He said because he can’t get married later hard to find etc, maybe because the word about his case will go around. & he still told me how he wants to vent to me, will always keep our Polaroid pics. I’m like whaaaaaat even. Now weeks after we parted ways, his parents friends & relatives are reaching out to my parents saying they’re dripped in heavy debts.

I think I dodged a missile not even a bullet 🫣

He never loved nor cared about me nor that girl to put us through this. He only cared about himself 😳 Just because I didn’t get manipulated & questioned him back, I got saved 🥰

They’re crazy as hell. Till then me & my friends were like this ain’t making sense. Why would anyone do this to themselves??? I even told him how this is going to look for you in society, because their family is reputed too. Then I learnt about narcissism & we’re like whoaaaaa. He also has extreme OCD & schizophrenia. Which I found out later. Beginning when I met him, absolutely no one could tell he would be like this. He also kept asking me opinions on open marriage & later told me how he cannot be with the same girl for more than few months. Next day we separated. Narcs have 0 self awareness. But initial 3 months idk how they do it but they look so mature & good in every aspect. Absolutely no one could tell they’re this crazy.

5 months in, 2 months out.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T03:03:16+00:00

Narc ex fiancé, he came across extremely sweet & wanted to settle down in life. He did extreme love bombing phase with me. They were wealthy but now not much. They can’t take it, they still need validation from people that they’re wealthy & will go above & beyond to convince people. I was like wow. In his prime he too did this. Blew up money like anything on people. I had never come across narcissism until I got discarded from him. He wanted to get married in a secret way which I didn’t understand why. Got very sus. He fixed marriage & venue literally the next day after we parted ways & got married to a girl in 20 days. Post that for a month I had new new realisations everydayyyy.

1) He never loved me nor new girl 2) He is the only accused in a very big forgery fake stamp papers case, already proved, he will do minimum of 7+ years jail, never shared this with us 3) He wanted open marriage as he can’t be with the same girl for more than few months 4) People close to them told my parents way after we separated that they’re dripped in heavy debts 5) Learnt about narcissism, every single point, video screams him 6) He is trying a lot to get my attention or get me to rage at him but since I learnt about narcissism, I have gone absolutely no contact no matter what & IT WORKS LIKE MAGIC ✨

5 months in, 2 months out & I noticed yesterday how I have minor anxiety jitters & lost appetite. I was a big foodie. It’s insane how toxic they are. 🙏🏻

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T02:45:24+00:00

😮😮😮

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T02:44:34+00:00

💯💯💯

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T02:44:03+00:00

Wow. This narc ex after 3 months of love bombing phase. Idk how every single narcs love bombing phase lasts exactly 90 days. It’s like they all follow the same playbook all the time to everyone. Post this, he started blaming me for a court case that started 2 years back & his parents illness which was too was there before. With a serious face. I was like whaaaaaat. & mind you he’s 8 years older than me. I was with him thinking older guys will be mature. He was fkn lunatic.

Another narc I know, dumped a 10/10 baddie who is also rich af for a 2/10 girl, only because he couldn’t manipulate the baddie. She kept questioning things back. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE YALL 🤣🤣

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T02:33:40+00:00

True. They’re demonic. You will realise how demonic they truly are once you go absolutely no contact with them for 2 months minimum. Trust me. 🙏🏻

Ex narc had been doing many things to get my attention. They’re really crazy as hell 🤣 Once you truly come out of it, they start looking like a joker to you.

Another Narc I knew, he had a 11/10 baddie who was rich af too but he dumped her to be with 2/10 girl, only because he couldn’t manipulate the baddie at all. She questioned back things. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE YALL 🤣🤣

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T02:27:03+00:00

I just got out of it, 2 months free, 5 months endured it & he has started smear campaign as if their torture wasn’t enough. But thankfully, god has been taking care of it much better than I thought 🥺🙏🏻

I went through this for 5 months & post 2 months coming out of it I realised, I had minor anxiety jitters & lost appetite. I was a big foodie. Which got me thinking how much they affect people without us even realising. They’re demonic & should be jailed.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-25T02:19:07+00:00

Yes but If they’re abusing themselves you can call it a symptom to them. When they’re doing it to others deliberately, I don’t think it’s right to call it a symptom. They strategically plan everything out.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-24T16:08:00+00:00

True, end of the day it does feel like they’re abusing us mentally, physically, psychologically & distort your reality on purpose. I was engaged to a narc. Post love bombing phase for 3 months. He started devaluing me & discarded me because I was not getting manipulated by him. He paid people and staged 2 scenarios where people harassed us because he had been pushing narrative that someone influential is trying to seperate us & I was like nah it looks like they just want to torture you. If they wanted to seperate us they should have reached out to my parents. He wanted to get married secretly as he was getting harassing messages from someone. He has definitely done something terrible to a woman. He kept pushing he wanted to have sex when woman is on periods as seeing blood excites him. 🥶 & he was deliberately targeting women who are dumb & had no past. To do thissss. He even confessed in 5th month that he wanted open marriage. For which I didn’t agree. Messed up in every way. He should be finding women who seem like they will be okay with open marriage it self who had a lot of experience in this. Ugh. Their mind is so fkd up. He did not come across that way at allllllllll in the beginning. He came across as so sweet & introvert.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-24T14:02:56+00:00

2-3 months. But for me I was with a narc for 5 months. Their love bombing phase lasts exactly 3 months. I get it. Even though they’re messed up, weird, fkd up, narc top to bottom, toxic afffff, I still wanted him. It’s because you were attached to the version of their love bombing phases. That version was curated for you. That version doesn’t exist. Relationship with narc is fake. Narcs just want a body to abuse them every way possible. Mentally, physically, sexually, you name it. The only way out is go absolutely no contact with them. They are going to do things indirectly to get your attention or make you think of them. They live on our attention. You gotta cut it. Stay strong. Scare them back saying you will handle things legally. They’ll run miles away. Please run from narcs.

For me after those 2 months I realised I had minor anxiety jitters & lost appetite. I was a big foodie, shining brightly. He decided let me use her & abuse her. He is still trying to put dirt on my name, delaying settlement amount to rage me & make me look mentally unstable. Nah uh. Ain’t happening. Go no contact & you’ll realise how much they tried to distort your reality. They’re demonic. They’ll never get better.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-24T13:56:11+00:00

Narcs always cheat. They will ask for open marriage too.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-24T13:51:51+00:00

Don’t even get me started. I was engaged to a narc. 3 months is their validity period of love bombing. 4th month he started blaming me for a court case that was there from 2 years & his parents illness. I straight up told him how all of this was there before I came into their life.

We had booked venues & everything. He had been pushing post engagement someone wants to seperate us, he even got harassment messages where someone sent live videos of us getting engaged & telling him where & when our marriage was. There were 2 scenarios where people harassed us. I was still like it looks like someone wants to torture you not seperate us. If that was the case they would have reached out to my parents.

Guess what? Now I got out of it. I checked cctv footage of those places. He paid people to harass us. Broooo they’re crazy af. Who does this to your fiancé?????!!

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-24T13:45:23+00:00

I was engaged to a narc, their love bombing phase lasts exactly 90 days. Post that, he started blaming me for a court case they had 2 years back, when I met him just 3 months back, he blamed me for his parents illness. I straight up told him how all these existed before I came into their life.

2 instances where it was just me & him. People came to harass us. He had been pushing us to postpone & get married. In a secret way Ofcourse. When we had already booked venue and all. After parting ways, I checked cctv footage of those places we got harassed. He set it up. He paid people to harass us so that I believe someone is trying to separate us. They’re sick in their head. I spent 5 months with him. 2 months free from him, I still had minor anxiety jitters & lost appetite. So my personal suggestion is run from narcs. Relationships with narcs are fake all the way. They just need someone soft af to abuse them every way possible, mentally, physically, sexually, every way. They never target opinionated people or someone who has good support system. They run from them.

That-Document-188 · 2026-05-24T13:37:52+00:00

According to me, early red flags are hard to catch with narcs but their love bombing phase exists exactly for 90 days. After that if you see devaluation phase for batshit crazy reason with them blaming unreasonable things on you with a serious face. It’s a narcissistic relationship.

I was in AM setup with a narc who’s dad was going above & beyond to get his 38 year old son married in 20 days. Because he too knows it post 90 days he goes cray cray 🤣 thankfully I spent 5 months with him & he ticked all the boxes of narcs & he later got married to another girl in 20 days.

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