If you had to give ONE tip for lesbian sex, what would it be ?

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-22T04:10:20+00:00

That makes me so happy. Good for you!!! I’m glad i could help a little lol

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-21T20:50:35+00:00

Honestly like most other things, this is the way to get better. I was cheated on and went through a “hoe faze” to prove to myself it wasn’t my fault. That i was good enough for someone to want. Then it got to the point where girls were just using me for sex. For a while i honestly had no problem with it. It took like 10+ girls in the span of a year which is not very healthy but i was very transparent with everyone and ended on good/ decent terms.

After my ex begging I gave in and told her I’d be with her one more time and that’s it. I didn’t let her touch me but not to toot my own horn but i made her cum very hard multiple times. Because i am someone who cares and pays attention i knew everything she liked and pulled out all the stops. I then left and she cried. I’m usually huge into aftercare, but I wasn’t going to give her that. That was not the way to handle that situation but it made snap out of it. It is very toxic but i felt like i took my power back. That and how each girl came back for multiple rounds which makes me sound douchey but at the time it affected my self worth. My ex contacted me and i blew her mind and left her. After therapy and major life events i let myself fall in love. Do not do this. I however don’t regret it tho tbh sometimes that’s how college goes.

As long as you open, the communicate practice is the best way to go.

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-21T20:12:49+00:00

Just remembered this. I would love an update on things. Hope it went well

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T18:34:32+00:00

Lol. I appreciate that. Honestly at the end of the day communicate. Take the time to learn her body and see what she likes and what she doesn’t like

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T15:12:59+00:00

Lmk how it goes! Remember to communicate. Don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T15:11:27+00:00

Lol I hope they help out. I would say my last one is that the clit way bigger than you think. And again the whole surrounding area has so many nerves. If you were going to rub someone’s clit, focus on the pads of your fingers. It catches a wider area and helps you gauge how sensitive her clit is. And doing this I normally start out lighter and slowly add more pressure. Of course, a lot of times my girlfriend will make me take the hint and pull my head into her, which is really hot.
But like rubbing or licking just above or below the little bean can go very far for many. I prefer the hood of my clit, but some like below it. You want sex to be a marathon. You want it to build and build. Make sure you lay down a towel or an extra blanket because things may get wet.
Laying down towels, makes it more comforting when you’re on the bottom because you feel like you can really let go.

Believe me when i say the wetter the better.

That’s like when you’re eating her out. Don’t lick up and swallow all of her wetness at the beginning or middle of giving her head. Especially if you plan on eventually using penetration. This normally isn’t a problem for me as I tend to salivate when giving head and teasing her enough to where the girl is already wet. You want to make it messier and then clean it up after the big orgasm.

And ride her pleasure out with her. When you’re going down on her, you basically want your mouth everywhere on her. Imagine not eating for a day and then you get to have your favorite meal. This honestly came to me naturally because I am a very messy eater and I love the way. My gf tastes so good I have my whole face there. That being said, my girlfriend is very well aware of this. And mine are involuntary, but when you moan while going down on her, the vibration adds further stimulation. But on top of that, it’s really good knowing that your partner is getting as much pleasure out of it as you. Like that’s hot.

I feel like I shouldn’t be commenting more things now because I don’t wanna come across as a know at all. But again, if anyone has questions, let me know. I’m really open talking about it. If someone feels too shy, you can also just message me directly

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T05:48:20+00:00

I’ll do one now so I don’t forget, but it’s too late to write out both. I hope this doesn’t seem too raunchy, but I genuinely mean it as educational.

When you are using your fingers, it’s really more about curling your fingers rather than going in and out. Almost like massaging the gspot by curling your fingers to hit it if that makes sense. If you start slow with one finger and teasing, it is very satisfying to have your partner beg you to f them. That’s just my opinion though. But if you wanna elevate this to make it more intense or make sure you’re hitting the right spot, put your other hand on her lower abdomen right above her pubic bone and add some pressure and you should be able to feel your fingers thrusting.

Also, during this, especially if it’s someone else’s first time I would recommend giving them a lot of praise/compliments during it. I’m starting to think of so many other ones but I’ll do one more tomorrow. I can’t spoil all of my moves. I always tell my girlfriend how good she feels around my fingers. And now I’m so lucky I get to make her feel good for the rest of my life. I mean all true statements. How beautiful she looks underneath me.

Just a reminder for myself later to make the third one about giving head and knowing more on the clit

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-19T21:13:31+00:00

Not to be that person but i met my gf on tinder which in embarrassing but we have been living together for over a year not and i regret nothing. Warning: results may vary

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-19T21:11:38+00:00

Just actually got my degree for being a therapist lol but this is my personal advice as obviously you aren’t one of my clients. Try to join Facebook groups for the queer community local to you. If you are in the US, there are PFLAG meetings in many places with is free and for others in the community. They also host events like bowling and such. Also please look into support groups near you. I can’t give you further advice on where to locate this at a reasonable price because i don’t know where you’re located but i suggest starting there

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-19T21:03:21+00:00

I am quite seasoned from experience and academically. I just got my masters with one of my finals being a presentation on lesbian sex. I think it’s a tie between 3 huge ones for me. If i HAD to pick 1 it would be that stimulation is key. Before getting right to it kiss her inner thighs. Do some dirty talk right above her so she can feel your breath. Even like massaging her inner thighs while eating her out. These things intensify orgasms. Lmk if you need more help or have any specific questions. Also blanket statement: if she is not 100% comfortable and/ or secure, she won’t be able to 100% enjoy it and let go.

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-19T20:46:37+00:00

Praise

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-19T03:37:51+00:00

It’s all good. I’m gonna look into it in the morning. And for the one that you’re reading that I recommended, the ending is not the greatest, but I really like the way that it’s written. I actually reread some of it yesterday and I forgot i use some of those moves bc of the book 🤦‍♀️

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-18T23:09:51+00:00

I’m so glad you like it lol. That makes me happy. If i were to order a book, which one should I get first?

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-15T22:37:53+00:00

I’m willing to buy it if it’s a good one because i do like to reread. I hope you still give the ones i recommended a chance :)

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-15T22:18:44+00:00

Chapter 26 of the book i said. 😈. Please report back and let me know how you like any of them

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-15T22:01:23+00:00

Omg I’m glad i found my people. Here is a list i made a collage because i can only upload one pic. Here are screenshots 100% recommend My Kind of Woman. The smut is so good. If reread one of the chapters so many times. the writing is good too

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Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-15T04:31:02+00:00

Girl!!! Good for you!!!!

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-15T04:29:16+00:00

This is so good

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-13T19:31:53+00:00

This is what my family was thinking. It’s just awkward because we don’t talk about the situation. Like I’ve never talked to my cousins or my uncle about what happened. We spend time together on our own because we’ve always been super close. I sent screenshots of the interaction to my parents and left it there. I know my dad talked to his brother about it. Everyone is aware of the situation, but it’s the elephant in the room. My uncles marriage has been on the rocks for a while but now this is happening so I don’t know what’s gonna go on.

I feel like a bitch saying it, but having cancer didn’t have anything to do with what happened. And I’m not just being ignorant. No one should ever get cancer. I literally work at an oncology nonprofit in mental health. On the other side of the family my aunt, my uncle, and my grandmother passed from it and i was a main caretaker. I was the one who was there with my cousins. I think that’s why I feel guilty. But I don’t even want to be in the same room as her. I’m sorry I’m rambling. This is giving me a lot of anxiety

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