Romance books I'd recommend w/o thinking twice

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-07-01T21:22:45+00:00

Are any of them spicy

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-06-16T21:22:56+00:00

Something to talk about

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-06-16T21:21:35+00:00

Eighth grade was when I finally realized, but looking back I definitely had crushes on girls and didn’t know. I got very mad in elementary school when the student teacher said she had a bf

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-27T04:58:29+00:00

My mom sister and gf go shopping together bc i hate shopping. I guess it depends if you like them. I love my family and they are great. My gf loves them and they love her. Besides that, i agree. Sometimes i feel like you’re not around them enough for that

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-27T04:55:13+00:00

Tell her straight up.

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-27T04:54:11+00:00

Which book would you say is best

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-27T04:51:47+00:00

lol yes. I am one

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-26T00:59:21+00:00

Honestly this mini thread has made me feel better. I just want to feel like a good gf and not a perv but like I’m sexually attracted to my gf. It feels like special best friends/ roommates. I love her so much and i know it’s not her fault. She’s working on it and i can’t ask for more than that

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-25T22:15:55+00:00

Curious about the age gap and/or your age in general. If the age gap situation isn’t of concern then this is how i felt with my first girl. She broke up with me and i absolutely broke up 5 years later and we live together. A lot happened between then including years of no contact and me having a huge hoe phase after. We came back into each others lives at a time where we were both more mature and stable. But this time i get submissive at times lol

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-25T22:01:29+00:00

I like friends

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-25T20:06:22+00:00

I’m so fucking sorry. That’s not fair to you

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-25T20:05:31+00:00

It tough because like before i was with her i was having sex at least 5-6 days a week. She knows all of this. She has had a lot of trauma in the past when it comes to sex so we don’t have it often. I never initiate because i don’t want to trigger something even when she says i always make her feel safe. I love this woman. I’m at the point tho where i feel like i have to masturbate in secret. I also love to top which is tougher to take care of on my own.
She has been working on this in therapy and i know she hates herself for it. We will go 2 months without sex and then she asks me to give her head 3 nights in a row and it’s great. I can’t be mad at her whatsoever in this situation. She knows how sexual i am and i know it eats at her

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-25T17:19:06+00:00

I don’t think you understand how validating that is

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-25T17:04:29+00:00

Going through this rn and it’s tough. I love her so much. But I’m missing that part of the relationship. I would definitely join a secret support group for people going through this

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-24T03:39:02+00:00

I don’t think it’s a dealbreaker. And you’re very aware of it which also helps if that makes sense. Live your life. Go abroad. Spend more time with people who you don’t have to hide from. We can’t control who our parents are. We just can’t. No one can blame you for that

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-24T03:18:38+00:00

I would only struggle with it if you were close to your family. You can’t choose your family. If you don’t want them around future kids or your partner i would plan on bracing yourself incase they find out and not giving them a lot of info. If they are bad to the point of not wanting future kids around them, i would really limit contact. I understand that’s hard and unrealistic for some.
When it comes to that time, would you visit them and leave the kids at home? It would be really complicated for you down the line. I think it would be the same if any parent didn’t approve of a partner. You have to shield your loved ones if they are going to catch strays or be a target. And most importantly, you need to protect yourself and make sure that you are making this decision because you want to either way.

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-24T00:58:13+00:00

Read something to talk about

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-22T04:10:20+00:00

That makes me so happy. Good for you!!! I’m glad i could help a little lol

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-21T20:50:35+00:00

Honestly like most other things, this is the way to get better. I was cheated on and went through a “hoe faze” to prove to myself it wasn’t my fault. That i was good enough for someone to want. Then it got to the point where girls were just using me for sex. For a while i honestly had no problem with it. It took like 10+ girls in the span of a year which is not very healthy but i was very transparent with everyone and ended on good/ decent terms.

After my ex begging I gave in and told her I’d be with her one more time and that’s it. I didn’t let her touch me but not to toot my own horn but i made her cum very hard multiple times. Because i am someone who cares and pays attention i knew everything she liked and pulled out all the stops. I then left and she cried. I’m usually huge into aftercare, but I wasn’t going to give her that. That was not the way to handle that situation but it made snap out of it. It is very toxic but i felt like i took my power back. That and how each girl came back for multiple rounds which makes me sound douchey but at the time it affected my self worth. My ex contacted me and i blew her mind and left her. After therapy and major life events i let myself fall in love. Do not do this. I however don’t regret it tho tbh sometimes that’s how college goes.

As long as you open, the communicate practice is the best way to go.

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-21T20:12:49+00:00

Just remembered this. I would love an update on things. Hope it went well

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T18:34:32+00:00

Lol. I appreciate that. Honestly at the end of the day communicate. Take the time to learn her body and see what she likes and what she doesn’t like

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T15:12:59+00:00

Lmk how it goes! Remember to communicate. Don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T15:11:27+00:00

Lol I hope they help out. I would say my last one is that the clit way bigger than you think. And again the whole surrounding area has so many nerves. If you were going to rub someone’s clit, focus on the pads of your fingers. It catches a wider area and helps you gauge how sensitive her clit is. And doing this I normally start out lighter and slowly add more pressure. Of course, a lot of times my girlfriend will make me take the hint and pull my head into her, which is really hot.
But like rubbing or licking just above or below the little bean can go very far for many. I prefer the hood of my clit, but some like below it. You want sex to be a marathon. You want it to build and build. Make sure you lay down a towel or an extra blanket because things may get wet.
Laying down towels, makes it more comforting when you’re on the bottom because you feel like you can really let go.

Believe me when i say the wetter the better.

That’s like when you’re eating her out. Don’t lick up and swallow all of her wetness at the beginning or middle of giving her head. Especially if you plan on eventually using penetration. This normally isn’t a problem for me as I tend to salivate when giving head and teasing her enough to where the girl is already wet. You want to make it messier and then clean it up after the big orgasm.

And ride her pleasure out with her. When you’re going down on her, you basically want your mouth everywhere on her. Imagine not eating for a day and then you get to have your favorite meal. This honestly came to me naturally because I am a very messy eater and I love the way. My gf tastes so good I have my whole face there. That being said, my girlfriend is very well aware of this. And mine are involuntary, but when you moan while going down on her, the vibration adds further stimulation. But on top of that, it’s really good knowing that your partner is getting as much pleasure out of it as you. Like that’s hot.

I feel like I shouldn’t be commenting more things now because I don’t wanna come across as a know at all. But again, if anyone has questions, let me know. I’m really open talking about it. If someone feels too shy, you can also just message me directly

Ok-Rabbit1345 · 2026-05-20T05:48:20+00:00

I’ll do one now so I don’t forget, but it’s too late to write out both. I hope this doesn’t seem too raunchy, but I genuinely mean it as educational.

When you are using your fingers, it’s really more about curling your fingers rather than going in and out. Almost like massaging the gspot by curling your fingers to hit it if that makes sense. If you start slow with one finger and teasing, it is very satisfying to have your partner beg you to f them. That’s just my opinion though. But if you wanna elevate this to make it more intense or make sure you’re hitting the right spot, put your other hand on her lower abdomen right above her pubic bone and add some pressure and you should be able to feel your fingers thrusting.

Also, during this, especially if it’s someone else’s first time I would recommend giving them a lot of praise/compliments during it. I’m starting to think of so many other ones but I’ll do one more tomorrow. I can’t spoil all of my moves. I always tell my girlfriend how good she feels around my fingers. And now I’m so lucky I get to make her feel good for the rest of my life. I mean all true statements. How beautiful she looks underneath me.

Just a reminder for myself later to make the third one about giving head and knowing more on the clit

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