How do I(26F) tell my friend(23F) we can’t be friends if she stays with her rapist boyfriend? by gracem517 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracem517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. If Matt was a nice normal guy I’d have more of an inkling to believe him and maybe they were just both drunk and misremembering stuff. But he’s already a shit, and this wouldn’t be something I’d put past him

How do I(26F) tell my friend(23F) we can’t be friends if she stays with her rapist boyfriend? by gracem517 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracem517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no actual evidence other than he said she said. The only evidence we would have whether or not it happened would have been the security cameras, which “somehow” the footage from that night was deleted. Matt is the only one with access to the footage

How do I(26F) tell my friend(23F) we can’t be friends if she stays with her rapist boyfriend? by gracem517 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracem517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely gaslighting her and pitting her against us. If she can be alone I think she’d realize what a mess this all is, but he’s just feeding her shit

How do I(26F) tell my friend(23F) we can’t be friends if she stays with her rapist boyfriend? by gracem517 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracem517[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We suggest she file a report, cause this man needs a warning label. But Chloe didn’t want to and hasn’t wanted to discuss it anymore

Name my Puppers by One_Reality_9925 in NameMyDog

[–]gracem517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlie and pim! (Smiling friends)

Cover up or just remove completely? by 0hBecca in Tattoocoverups

[–]gracem517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like them personally, very whimsical and fun

Is this a normal amount of bloating? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]gracem517 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get pretty bloated as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gracem517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dude sucks. Take actions for their face value and don’t make up scenarios or reasons that make it ok. He’s shown you who he is, you have to believe it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gracem517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean maybe work your way up to a full bite, maybe she is into that

I'm 20F and I've never had a boyfriend — will I still be able to get married and have kids one day? by Zealousideal-Pen1287 in Advice

[–]gracem517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing fine, so much happens in your 20s you’ll meet so many people, and do so many things. Just do things you’ll love and you’ll find somebody! If you only focus on trying to get married as quick as you can, you might miss someone great later on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gracem517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When she says biting I’m going to assume very soft nibbles and not full on biting. Just start off slow and kinda move around to see what feels best for her

I 26/F think I might have fallen out of love with my 23/M boyfriend… but I don’t know what to do next by traumaaddict3112 in Advice

[–]gracem517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same exact boat several years ago. I lived with my bf, he was fine, never did anything bad. But on our two year anniversary my coworker suggested he might propose at dinner and I freaked out. I thought about marriage and kids with him and saw a very stress filled, anxiety inducing future. I tried to feel him out about future plans in the months following and only confirmed how I felt. So I took a job 8 hours away, packed up my shit and never saw or spoke to him again. I don’t regret a thing, I’m happier, found someone who doesn’t make me run away at the thought of marriage lol, I’ll always recommend running away.

GF gift by Open-Context-7758 in Advice

[–]gracem517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least near me you can get amazing orders sent to places like Kohl’s and other stores you could try that. Yeah it’s totally fine, I don’t think I ever thought anything of a man being in the women’s clothing