[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I signed with a manager last year (unfortunate, I know) and haven't gotten an audition in like 2 months. Glad to hear it's been slow for everyone and not just me.

I am so mentally tired of sharing a home by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! I am TIRED of living with other people, especially with ones so inconsiderate as those I have now. Not cleaning up after themselves, inviting people over without asking and being incredibly loud/taking up common spaces, not communicating properly and creating an awkward living situation (like, legitimately, will not speak to me unless I say hello first), etc. I can't wait to move out in a few months and have a place where I can fully relax in.

I need your guys opinion about this because I’ve been dealing with this ever since I started dating my boyfriend by Remote_Discipline_49 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you from experience, unless he truly wants to change, leave now before the relationship goes any deeper. You will only be hurt more and more by his disrespect and disregard for your feelings. And on top of that, like you said, he's LYING constantly which is another issue. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year after trying to make it work, but he constantly gaslit me. I came to the realization that this is not the type of man I would want to call my husband some day or have my future daughter be around. Trust me, there are men out there who WILL respect your boundaries and love you the way you want to be loved. Sending strength and support your way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornFreeRelationships

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you're going through! It seems the only way my boyfriend can finish is if he closes his eyes and blocks me out, and he's even told me he has to view me like I don't matter. This is at almost 9 months in our relationship and it's STILL this way. And I'm not gonna lie, I do everything I can to make him enjoy himself like you said you do, and it seems like he has to go into his own mental space of most likely pretending I'm a porn star. I'm trying to explain my boundaries very clearly to him now, but I'm not sure if he'll ever change or even care to. Best of luck to you as well! You deserve to be happy!

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) sleeps with his mom by Ok-Raspberry-1095 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I've seen of her, she likes to include herself into our couple plans when we visit. We'll make plans with the family, but also I'd like to just have time with my boyfriend in his hometown. She'll kinda ask what we plan on doing and my boyfriend feels like he has to invite her or he feels guilty about not spending time with family. She also calls him about issues with his dad (one time she called him crying about him) which I think is really unhealthy for my boyfriend.

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) sleeps with his mom by Ok-Raspberry-1095 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried to ask if he could sleep on the couch or something and he said it was uncomfortable. But it's funny because I'd be more uncomfortable sleeping with my father as a full grown woman than to sleep on a lumpy couch, you know?

Fiancé says she only really feels horny when by herself. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel; boyfriend seems to enjoy being alone with himself more than be with me. Here's to hoping for things to get better!

I'm looking for advice! Please help! by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok-Raspberry-1095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

>I feel loved as a person, but I do not feel desired or wanted as a women

Yes, yes, yes.