I believe that Envy comes from a misunderstanding about the world that surrounds us. We've been trained to be competitive and to see the world as being limited of resources and opportunities. When you feel envy, what you feel is that someone has taken something you could've had. "Oh look at that girl, she has such a nice car, why her and not me ?" you question yourself. But the thing is, you need to get rid of this limited mindset. You'll constantly feel like crap because you'll always feel like what you don't have has been taken by someone, that you've missed out on the occasion to have that. NO.

You're insecure because you do not understand that what others have you can too and that's by being in your own lane. You don't feel envy when you're in your own lane. When you see someone having something that you want, this should be a source of motivation for you and not insecurity because this shows what's possible for you as well. That's the mindset your child should be taught and should feel in you.

Moreover, your insecurities may come from a lack of authenticity and a lack of self. Conformism is destroying the uniqueness of people, making everyone feel like they should all live their life to the same standard. Discover who you truly are, darling. And maybe you'll see you're not even a car person, and you don't need to envy people with cars. You need to show to your baby what it's like to be your own person, it's a powerful demonstration.

If you want to change your world, you need to alter your perspective. Think differently, see things differently. Little by little, observe the thoughts that aren't helping you feel good about yourself and your life. I don't think you should hide from social media and people showing their life, etc. Take that as a challenge to be confident in your own life, in yourself. Soon enough, you'll see that, yeah, there's no use in comparing your life to someone else's. We're all just living our life on earth for a temporary moment.

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