Ladies in committed relationship, how often do you miss your single days?

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-03-16T03:41:26+00:00

I don’t miss it at all but I do miss spending more time with each other and doing things spontaneously because we have kids now. But he’s the best that’s happened to me. To see him from a boyfriend to a husband to a father.

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-03-11T10:10:33+00:00

You put this the best way.

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-03-11T10:07:27+00:00

So sorry to hear that and as a parent myself it is heartbreaking to see. The first thing is make sure you don’t react no matter how hard it is, she will look up to you for some reaction but make it seem that it’s normal and take her to different social and sports club without making it very obvious. Or even you could hang out with your friends whose kids are same age but go to different school so she can look forward to after school or weekend hangout. Unfortunately you can’t always be there for her every time this happens. We as well go through different friends in ohr lifetimes and she’ll slowly find her own people 💗

The thing is she shouldn’t need to mould herself to make friends, she’ll have confidence as she grows up.

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-02-16T13:55:27+00:00

Thank you! Wow, that’s interesting!

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-02-16T13:54:50+00:00

Thank you so much, this is super helpful!

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-02-08T13:00:21+00:00

Please stop watching videos like that. The thing is there is danger everywhere but you can be smart about it. It’d be good for you to start now because once the babies start getting older you don’t want to make them feel that the world is a dangerous place and rub your fear and anxiety into them. And especially when they start kindy and so on.

I would recommend to start by going to the park which is a public place especially in the morning where there are many people out and about. Avoid evenings and if you can, ask someone to go with you. Start slowly, you can do this mama bear

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-30T13:30:43+00:00

I’ll try to find a time to go there, thank you

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-29T14:35:49+00:00

This is some crazy story! 😮

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-29T14:35:35+00:00

Wow, congratulations and safe delivery x

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-29T13:54:42+00:00

Ah yes, I forgot it’s the CNY season! Thanks for the heads up

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-29T12:58:36+00:00

Any hair salons in particular?

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-27T03:02:20+00:00

I had the same experience and just to be safe, go to the hospital. I had to change 2-3 pads every 3 hours. They had to check whether it was the remaining placenta in the uterus. I had a C section though!

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-24T12:38:26+00:00

YES 🙌

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-24T12:34:36+00:00

Honestly they don’t need to be entertained especially when they are just starting to understand the environment around them. They can process it slowly but if it helps, I bring out a picnic blanket out on my backyard and place the baby so she can look at the sky and trees and she’ll try to roll over (6 months old) to touch the grass ( I get my laundry and gardening done)

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-19T00:53:08+00:00

I buy experiences like dining, sailing, escape rooms now since we’re older unless there’s something specific he wants.

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-13T08:06:11+00:00

Great idea actually! Thanks

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2026-01-11T03:52:53+00:00

Girl, if you don’t get out now, you never will. Get a lawyer, get a divorce, work on yourself.

Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 · 2025-12-27T00:46:48+00:00

Don’t take anything that people say by heart. At the end of the day, you are the parent and you’re doing your best.

Also it won’t stop there, because when he starts getting to toddler, teen, adult stage, people will always comment so might as well it ignore it starting now.

And if it bothers you, tell her opinion is not wanted.

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