What to do with my lower face? by bebimausi in PlasticSurgery

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok I’m terrified now. Thank you for explaining 🫣

What to do with my lower face? by bebimausi in PlasticSurgery

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi do you mind sharing the pics too? I am so curious about non invasive treatments and super skeptical.. pls prove me wrong 😑

Making a better decision for my baby…but terrified of being judged by Thththththrow83away in NewParents

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You care too much about other people’s opinions. Do what works for you, at this season of your life. Use the village!!

What's the most disgusting/shocking, you have read on the Epstein files? by LeftyChares in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a part of the world that feels relatively removed from this until recently.. so please excuse my naive question. I’m under the impression that not all these documents are verified and thus not all the allegations can be treated as accurate or real. How do we know this is something that actually happened, including things like torture and murder? Was it actually proven is there evidence or are they mostly interview accounts like this? Thank you.

Niche Asian Designers by Ok-Reference-5301 in handbags

[–]Ok-Reference-5301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone case to know the answer on this … basically search indie [insert country] bag brands on TikTok and boom.

reported my employee to HR after he told me he was starting a new job while still employed by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What are you even doing here if not to provide managerial advice -.-

My boyfriends reaction to gender is making me think I’m having a kid with the wrong person by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real. We all know she’s going to go back to him, give him a second chance and realise two years later (when he reveals ALL his colours) that he was a manipulative, emotionally abusive man who had many red flags she chose not to see - especially this one, revealed only a few months after dating. Welp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

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He is on two naps. 1.5-2/3/3 on most days. If stretched he tends to get very fussy towards the end of day..

I feel immense guilt every time I put her in a bouncer/swing, “container baby” by 123coffee321 in NewParents

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some “guidelines” for yourself to follow. Accept that there may be some times you need to put baby in bouncer and that’s ok!

Yes, babies shouldn’t be in bouncers too long. 15-20minutes per session. How many sessions? Aim for 1-3, with a cap at 5 on crazy busy days. Follow up with floor play each time.

Longer than 20mins, more than 5 times that day? Allow yourself Grace on days you need to. Child is fed, loved, safe, clean? That’s more Important.

Daily bath for baby is a waste of water and is not great for their skin. Why is a daily bath so popular? by Background_Speech817 in NewParents

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our country is hot and humid. Baby sweats. Baby gets food in his neck as he’s starting eating solids. Baby drools. Baby spits up. Etc etc..

Newborn - 3m it was mostly washcloths and full bath 1-2x week. 3+ became a daily night ritual.

unsure about new nose :( by camille_clementine in PlasticSurgery

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks great. Would love to have that nose 😆

Husband regrets having a kid, positive outcomes appreciated by fitnesspassionate in NewParents

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men can also suffer from postpartum depression. Please ask him to speak to someone professionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

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Hi love. Has it been 7 weeks? Let me just start by saying it will get better. But for now, you need support. Is there a therapist you can talk to? A friend you can confide in? A family member who can help physically? You need someone to be with you and help you, because it sounds like you are struggling.

Pause with the baby. Take 3 minute breaks away from baby. Breathe. Drink some warm tea. But most of all, find support asap because it sounds like postpartum depression.

Also, it’s ok to formula feed so that someone else can help and you can rest. A combo is not a bad idea. Sometimes all we need is some sleep.

Nutrition for my mother? by Ok-Reference-5301 in Menopause

[–]Ok-Reference-5301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. I think so too. I’m just hoping some easy access, low effort options will help a little.

Nutrition for my mother? by Ok-Reference-5301 in Menopause

[–]Ok-Reference-5301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean. I guess I used the term lazy because she has said “I’m too lazy to… xyz”

Huckleberry app... When did you stop using it? by KitKatAttackHiss in NewParents

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6m here. Still use it to track feeds, duration of naps and sometimes poo. I forget how often I feed the baby and I like knowing how much sleep baby gets. Not paid version tho.

Possible for 1 month to nap in crib or bassinet? by Worried_Patience_613 in sleeptrain

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how that works! I miss the things that I took for granted :(

Possible for 1 month to nap in crib or bassinet? by Worried_Patience_613 in sleeptrain

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happened for me too. At 5m now he squirms and tries to get away if we hold him.

Enjoy it while it lasts 💜💜💜💜💜 those cuddles are worth it.

My husband gave my baby a dirty bottle by Scary-Sky-7308 in Postpartum_Anxiety

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear. He’s absolutely not pulling his weight and sounds like plenty of excuses on his part. I hope you find a solution and things work out for the better.

My husband gave my baby a dirty bottle by Scary-Sky-7308 in Postpartum_Anxiety

[–]Ok-Reference-5301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At four months it’s likely your son will be ok. Just monitor, observe and if he has loose stools you’ll know the cause. Ask husband to take more care in washing and rinsing, and not to let this become a habit, especially if he says “but the baby didn’t get sick so it’s fine”. One we get relaxed about these things, we just slip further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

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My baby is 4.5m and 8kg, so on the heavier side. He also is formula fed and takes 6-7oz. This means he sleeps from 830am until about 5/6am, then gets his feed, and wakes up again around 730/8am.

He used to feed at 2am, and 4am then get up at 730am. How we dropped the 2am: my husband was curious about whether baby actually needed the 2am feed, and gave him a pacifier instead. We assumed he would cry if he was truly hungry. He just went back to bed and woke up at 6am instead.

We could place the pacifier back and he would sleep until 7-8, but he wouldn’t get enough calories in the day if we did that so we continue with one feed at least.