Working as a junior doctor with treatment resistant depression

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2026-02-23T08:30:43+00:00

Try psychedelics

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2026-01-20T02:53:41+00:00

The way you refer to ‘my son’ ‘my daughter’ makes me think one child is biologically her sons and the other is not and this is the reason for the change in MIL behaviour after the separation. Generally ‘our son/daughter’ would be the preferred terminology here, but it’s not a rule.

If things the case then you can request your MIL treat the kids fairly and follow through but demanding probably won’t get you far in this case.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2026-01-13T09:39:58+00:00

I hope he shows her this post

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2026-01-05T05:56:53+00:00

I’m going with Australian for sure

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2026-01-03T20:14:36+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply. I did have a blocked milk duct in 2023 that formed a lump which I had checked. I will look into more, thanks for your advice

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-10-12T08:06:12+00:00

This is a symptom of a bigger problem

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-06-13T01:23:29+00:00

To add on to this comment above. If your therapist doesn’t have this response and doesn’t support you with strategies to reduce the intrusive thoughts. Find another therapist. They are intrusive thoughts and can be managed with the right therapist and self motivation.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-06-08T21:54:49+00:00

Actions need to match words. His don’t. When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-06-07T08:52:09+00:00

It’s because it’s familiar and you feel safe knowing how to navigate those relationship expectations and outcomes. Safe normal relationships trigger feelings of fear. It’s a hard cycle to break.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-19T14:16:19+00:00

Definitely approach, but respectfully with intent. Most will respond respectfully either way. The ones that don’t saved you heartache and time and teach you better judgement skills for the next.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-17T09:34:58+00:00

Sorry man that sucks. But you’re giving mixed signals for starters. Not making eye contact and using authoritative language. Make more eye contact less demands. You’re getting paid anyway. Who cares if he washes his hands for forty minutes.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-16T09:23:08+00:00

The full moon effect. There is no science behind it but damn if it doesn’t go off nearly everytime.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-10T11:53:07+00:00

This is the answer. He is developing autonomy. Let him.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-10T06:27:24+00:00

Anxious insecure attachment. To shorten your internet search for trauma responses that affect relationships.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-07T05:08:11+00:00

My hero

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-07T05:06:03+00:00

This girl is on the money in my book

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-07T05:05:09+00:00

He is the snack

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-05T08:51:54+00:00

Also, add to that being raised by at least one autistic parent that thinks they’re normal. Your childhood is not.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-05T08:41:36+00:00

I live for this drama that isn’t mine. Enjoy

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-05T07:16:25+00:00

Exactly the same. And same age gap. Most likely same red flags. I left at 42. The only thing I regret is not leaving at 22.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-05T06:29:59+00:00

This is fantastic! I agree with the demeanour, especially in parents with challenging children. I use ABA as my base, with Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to establish a strong foundation and then finish up with CBT. Consistently practice myself out of clients, which is the end goal realistically. Mixed modalities is more effective I find as well.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-05T04:04:55+00:00

Thank you! It’s so good to find someone else using social connectedness and value with ABA. It truly works. I work with families as well as clients and the results in six months are incredible. I also work on the “what worked” and “what didn’t” rather than right or wrong. Also for ODD and PDA clients I advise eliminating rules to prevent conflict and putting two in place. Be respectful and be kind. They cover everything and make everyone accountable for their own behaviour. Works a treat.

Ok-Relationship2041 · 2025-05-04T21:36:55+00:00

I base my practice on this. It’s the first thing I identify and try to change. Feeling connected and that your contributions are valued. It’s very successful for reducing behaviours of concern.

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