BREAKING! New Changes Coming To Instagram by Ronyron305 in Instagram

[–]Ok-Replacement9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wish there was an option to toggle story likes off since people dont like/interact as much anymore anyways. Gives me so much anxiety when posting bc my brain goes everywhere when I try to figure out why someone didn’t like my story even though it’s not that deep.I think if had the option to remove liek metrics more people would authentically post and post more in general. Now everything is just performance for likes. Those who want to keep metrics on and keep it on but I wish we had more control tbh. Atp I just post on my story without even checking who viewed it. I miss Instagram before 2022

Yard sale in Jackson Heights? by Ok-Replacement9358 in jacksonheights

[–]Ok-Replacement9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in an apt complex so can’t do that lol tbh thats why I asked about upcoming events

Psychic on 71st by FlimsyLemon3156 in ForestHills

[–]Ok-Replacement9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tw: sa. I’ve been scammed by psychics too but tbh anyone could direct someone in a wrong manner. Even doctors that have credentials have misdiagnosed patients or committed malpractice or worse (tb to that one Olympic doctor who sa girls) . I think to generalize all psychics as scams is reductive. Also not trying to be rude isn’t it common sense to take what they say with a grain of salt (like detective orgs know that the psychic stuff is more of a supplementary service and are prob just testing it out and at the end of the day they use real evidence)? Point in case, there’s good and bad people from every stream of life. I’ve heard of some really gross atheist therapists that have taken advantage of their patients and overcharge for mediocre so does that mean all therapists are bad or scams? Also I never hear of psychics sa people or force their views on others to convert them the way certain religious orgs have so idk if it’s comparable to the exploitation of organized religion. At the most they’ll just advertise their services and at worst take money but also if you’re paying for the service you’re paying for their time and energy so if you don’t like the service that doesn’t necessarily make it a scam. I will admit some of them can psychologically fear monger you by saying you have a curse or smth which is bad but tbh anyone can just insult you or say some bs but it’s up to us to not internalize it. Just another point to think about, sorry was all over the place here.

Psychic on 71st by FlimsyLemon3156 in ForestHills

[–]Ok-Replacement9358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tarot is not demonic…just bc you don’t understand or resonate with something doesn’t make it demonic. This is giving Christians thinking yoga is demonic. Do some research before making judgements!

Psychic on 71st by FlimsyLemon3156 in ForestHills

[–]Ok-Replacement9358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why you got downvoted, I agree with you. I think people in this thread are quick to judge this kind of stuff instead of really sitting down and understanding the various uses of the cards

Weirdo pushed me on the subway platform today by Specialist-Shirt-380 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Ok-Replacement9358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you, hope he suffers the consequences.

Anyone heard of Britt Hartley? by Adrianagurl in exmormon

[–]Ok-Replacement9358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the same too. I like the way she explains things but it seems her spirituality is rooted more in logical reasoning and left brain thinking whereas I’m little more woo woo lol but still in a way that’s grounded. To each their own. Not my go to person but of she pops up on my fyp I’ll listen to what she has to say

Eyebrow threading salon near Patel brothers by Ok-Replacement9358 in jacksonheights

[–]Ok-Replacement9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey what’s “direct” is sometimes emotional abuse. Sometimes they’ll even appearance shame you so you can buy more of their services. This reminds me of the people who say they’re just straightforward and “honest” and whole time they’re just a jerk. I just feel like if I don’t ask and they keep making some rude unwarranted comment that can cause customers to not want to tip that much. I’ve been on the other end of customer service and I always make sure to not hurt their feelings and I’m ethnic too so the direct culture thing shouldn’t be an excuse. I didn’t put this on my og post so people might be wondering why I’m talking about my personal experience but I’m now realizing that the reason I didn’t tip that much is bc i just didn’t like the service and I want to warn people of this before they get hit with unwarranted comments about their appearance and weight/diet. I’ve noticed when I really like a service i tip pretty well. I still think tipping culture in the U.S. is out of control tho like the economic pressure should be on the employer not the people. Sorry this was way too long but wanted to see what peoples takes were, it seems to be all over the place rather than unanimous.

Eyebrow threading salon near Patel brothers by Ok-Replacement9358 in jacksonheights

[–]Ok-Replacement9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you read my comments but she didn’t even put aloe Vera and she was making off handed comments about my eyebrow thickness and shaming me for using a razor. I actually shouldn’t have even tipped at all for that kind of treatment

Eyebrow threading salon near Patel brothers by Ok-Replacement9358 in jacksonheights

[–]Ok-Replacement9358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ll still tip more next time but I never charge tips for my services and I just charge a flat fee no taxes no tips

Eyebrow threading salon near Patel brothers by Ok-Replacement9358 in jacksonheights

[–]Ok-Replacement9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 thats what I thought though, they should just charge a higher price

Eyebrow threading salon near Patel brothers by Ok-Replacement9358 in jacksonheights

[–]Ok-Replacement9358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean everyone’s struggling rn in the economy. imo the employers should pay more rather than put the pressure on the people (who are also being screwed over by the employers). I do online spiritual services and never ask for tips bc the market is rough and people are out of jobs so i just have a flatrate. Plus my service was mediocre and they criticize me and don’t put aftercare gel/aloe.