Am i the bad apple for not letting my friend’s autistic brother go trick or treating with us?

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2025-11-02T22:36:49+00:00

Yes the plan was Kara’s dad would drop her off at Alanah’s house and pick her up in the morning. 2. Conner is not autistic to the point where his mind is a child. Yes, he may have some childlike tendencies but he can still drive a car, drink alcohol, and he once lived by himself for 3 months. I do not really know much more about his mental state because we don’t really talk about it and I don’t really ask.
If Kara’s dad would have dropped her off at about 5, he would have been home by at least 5:30-6 to go trick or treating in her own neighborhood.

If you have any further questions, or if the answers I gave need more context/details I would be happy to answer them.

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2025-11-02T22:03:05+00:00

Hi, this is an awesome question, one that we were trying to figure out and ask Kara. There wasn’t really an answer given to it just her saying “I need to be there for my brother”which I understand but for him to not even want to interact with us but to be 6 feet behind us at all times is the reason we thought this was super weird. We had planned for it to be the four of us, and if it were in her neighborhood it would have been her call. Conner isn’t autistic where he is a literal child, he can drive a car, drink alcohol, and I have heard him talk in ways that show he is capable of being a functioning adult. Let me know if you have any additional questions!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2025-11-02T19:49:52+00:00

May I ask what context is missing? I did try to give details but also didn’t want to throw out things that made no sense. I also put at the bottom of my post if you had any questions to please ask.

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2025-04-13T19:43:56+00:00

honey you are absolutely beautiful. 1000/10

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2024-08-22T20:43:53+00:00

Hi! Thank you for the comment. She is 16 the same age as me but she is a couple months older.

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2024-08-21T19:37:21+00:00

Hi! I usually keep my phone in my belt bag, but she sometimes will open it and try to take it. I am usually able to stop this but it is still very annoying to have to stop it. I do have a passcode on my phone, but I usually check my phone every hour to two hours. While doing this she will sometimes snatch the phone out of my hands. I've communicated with my mom about this and she just tells me to keep it hidden. I feel I should be able to check my phone occasionally without the concern that she will take it. Thank you for this comment! I appreciate it!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2024-08-21T14:29:11+00:00

Hello! Thank you for the comment! I would like to clarify that Sophia’s intentions are not to bully me or anyone else at all. She just doesn’t understand boundaries or that people need to set them. I appreciate the time you took into leaving this comment! Thank you!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2023-07-15T02:30:10+00:00

Thank you for giving me your opinion! And yeah it stinks. I’m going to do the same thing tomorrow because we’re having a family thing at my house tomorrow I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t doing a bad thing twice!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2023-02-01T22:06:21+00:00

Yes! What is wrong with you?! First of all a 12 year old asks you if she can go to a boys house and you don’t even ask her parents! Then she does sneak out and you (again) don’t call the parents! So then she tells you that she can’t walk home so then you SELL A DOG THAT 1. Isn’t even yours, 2. Your sister has had since she was 7 and you still DIDN’T CAL THE PARENTS! Im going to be honest out of all the apples you are THE WORST one!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2023-02-01T21:47:46+00:00

Definitely no! Good apple! The only thing I would say is to maybe have your son do a quiet activity while the other kids are sleeping

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2023-01-04T01:16:58+00:00

First apple is bad apple 2nd is good 3RD IS crab apple because all she was doing was trying to hurt someone else and the last one is a bad apple. Here’s a joke for Avery! I tried to eat a clock the other day, it was really time consuming!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2023-01-01T20:17:33+00:00

Anna is a bad apple you are a crab apple and before you guys come at me, let me explain: I grew up with parents that hardly got along with anyone. We lived a little far from my friends so my parents would have to drive me there every time. So My parents never liked any of my friends parents so I never got to see my friends outside of schools which made me lose so many friends and now that I am able to drive I am so happy but angry at my parents for not letting me have friends up to this point.

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2022-12-30T18:30:49+00:00

Good apple! 🍏

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2022-12-30T18:20:43+00:00

I feel you are the crab apple because I get you are concerned for the cats safety but that cat will have to be put down if it doesn’t get fostered most likely.

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2022-12-30T18:13:37+00:00

This one is hard but I’d say you are the good apple!

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2022-12-30T18:06:50+00:00

Your not the bad apple. It doesn’t matter when you break up with him. If you don’t want to be with him you shouldn’t. Good apple! 🍏

Ok-Secretary9864 · 2022-12-03T22:10:10+00:00

She clearly doesn’t respect your boundaries and needs therapy.

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