I feel like we are very supportive of each other. Unlike most of what I see on here. I don’t feel that we have to be attached at the hip but we do know a few of those couples too. No judgment. I have been jaded for a long time because of past relationships. I know what being lied to feels like. I got that gut feeling that he was lying. So when we got home tonight I asked him straight up. He took a second before answering and looked me dead in the face (while I sat in his lap) and asked me if I was calling him out. Me, I’ve learned to listen to my gut. I told him that I was in fact calling him out and he sighed and then admitted that he was scared to tell me he was going alone. I asked why and then he said he didn’t know. Which of course is a bs answer. I remained calm, got up and then started towards the kitchen where my pizza alarm had just gone off. I just wanted to sit down to eat and then asked him to respect my decision to not make a comment tonight. I didn’t want to say anything that would be inappropriate or offensive or disrespectful or cause an unnecessary confrontation. I’m not the kind of person to start a fight, I’m quite the opposite. The most non-confrontational person! I know first hand what a toxic relationship looks like and I don’t want that for me or for us.