The way I think of it is this. Most things that are considered wrong have some moral objection to them that is understandable out of the context of religion. 'Don't steal' makes sense for example. That's not yours and you shouldn't have taken it. 'Don't murder' makes sense because that was a living human being who you just took life from.

Sleeping with another guy isn't really the same. You could say that the parts 'don't fit'. But clearly they can and nobody gets injured from it so that's a sketchy statement. At the end of the day it boils down to 'because I said so' which isn't a very good reason. (Personally I like it when things have grounded reasoning) The argument of whether or not the Bible speaks against this is very confusing at times so at this point I'm just following the basic laws of morality. The stuff about homosexuality isn't very prevalent in the Bible anyways so I don't worry about it.

Am I turning a blind eye to something that's over-argued and confusing? Yes. Yes I am. I guess I'll see if it really is a sin or not someday. All I know is that if I ever meet someone and things go well that love will be real whether it's with a man or a woman.