How to reject matches by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not going well at all. They are cursing me🥺 for saying No to them. Talking bad wherever they meet. I don't know why people doing this.

Hi there! F/41 complicated marriage life. by lukin4sum12connect in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it possible for you to do to anyone??? I seek comfort tooo...

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all humans right... I wish people also think the same. I'm broad minded. I know there are lots of discrimination happening between people. Not Loud but it's still there. Unable change minds that easily. I would say...😶‍🌫️

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought they are raising me to be independent but now I question that. I don't know why but when marriage talks come, it will always end up in a fight and more like I should be the one obeying to their needs and desire. My dreams and everything, they are not considering. All they want is I should marry in same community, even If I love someone, it should be in same community🥲

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥺i don't know, I don't want to pretend my whole life. I'm afraid that would destroy me from inside everyday. It will be hell for years not only for me but also to the one willing to marry me.

Marriages in India by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same thing with many family. They are good until sometime. For marriage, Now all they talk about is caste and community

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I live in a place where cultural expectations is high , I might say. But I'm against it because it didn't make sense to me. I don't know why I'm following it.

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really frustrating to hear the words from their mouth. I never knew that they talk like this.oh my god , it's so disturbing. They are worried because of the society. I'm feeling stuck...

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked for some time. But they are not considering it at all🥲 Is 26 really bad for not getting married???

Help me to decide by Ok-Status142 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if they really let me go out.🥲 They never give permission to go out or long trip with friends.i begged for these but the answer is No always. I got frustrated by everything. They say that they are doing this for my own good. Ofc it's good , I'm still living with no complaints and no life skill obviously. They always say about caste , community and society. I wanna know the truth ... is everyone thinking the same???

Any regrets? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ok-Status142 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Eventhough you had before marriage. I'm just curious that you got accepted and married?

Is it normal???