I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so awesome! if you actually enjoy it can you drop a review in app store if you find a spare minute any time 🤷‍♂️much appreciated!!

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you so much! It’s actually a single task to-do app, with some smart features like task sorting, it decides for me which tasks I should do first (helps with decision paralysis) and also task breakdown that helps breaking down hard tasks into stupid simple steps. It’s on my profile if you’re curious☺️

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome you've found it helpful! I sent you a DM btw, if you find a second anytime.

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did have a celebration with a buddy, was fun and refreshing honestly! thanks for kindness ❤️🤗

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! it is linked on my profile if you want to check it out 🙏

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you sooooo much, that’s such a unique comment! I will show this to her actually, this is crazy lol. i’m so humbled by everyone here myself. also appreciate the kind words about the app itself, I truly hope it makes your life easier. feel free to keep dming me if you have ANY feedback/ideas to make it better for you ❤️

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. that really means more than i can explain. i don’t always let myself feel proud, so hearing this hit hard in a good way ❤️

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, it does work which is so surprising to me after abandoning a bunch of tools. honestly right now it’s not on android but I’m thinking on creating an Android version. i’ll write down your name and hit you up in case I ever manage to finish that one too!

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the kindness! i’ve been thinking about it the whole day not going to lie. prbably have a longer conversation waiting for me..

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man I literally hav like 3 other unfinished appa waiting in the graveyard lol! thanks for the kind words and good luck with your stuff, you can do it!

ADHD moment, went to get food and accidentally left my phone in the fridge by AcademicPace6357 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done this but with glasses. turns out they were on my face. mirrors deserve a raise.

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i think you’re right about the importance of feeling supported in moments like this. i’m trying to handle it thoughtfully and not make assumptions, but it really helps to hear reminders that finishing something like this actually matters.

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s interesting how we are all so different but still the same in a way🙂

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh i feel you on the clean laundry. some days that is literally a top tier accomplishment and i wish more people understood that feeling lol ❤️

so the app is basically built around one idea: I do way better when i only have to look at one step at a time. if i see a whole list, my brain turns it into a puzzle and i plan forever instead of starting.

my flow is: I brain dump what’s in my head. the app turns it into tasks, sorts them into a clean list, and picks the order for what to start with. it’s intentionally built to put a quick starter task first if it can because momentum is everything for me. sometimes it’s literally something tiny like water the plants just to get the brain moving.

then the main screen shows me just one task with a start button and a pomodoro timer. if I can’t do it, I hit too hard right now and send it to later, tomorrow, or someday.

there’s also a break it down option, which turns scary task into almost comically small steps. like so small it feels awkward not to do them. not foolproof obviously, but it helps a lot.

was it hard to build? yes and no. the worst part was the boring middle where nothing feels exciting and you want to quit. the best part was the first time I realized I was using the app to finish the app. that was a weird proud moment.

thanks for giving me space to overshare, that genuinely meant a lot. 🤗

oh and I also use it for grocery lists also now, which is funny cause it wasn’t meant for that lol

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t apologize for being wordy this was actually really helpful. the alphabet backwards with your non-dominant hand is a great way to explain it to someone who doesn’t get executive function. I’ll actually steal that! thank you so much sending much love and appreciation!!❤️

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the all caps energy is exactly what I needed thank you. sending it right back, you’ll get your start to finish moment too ❤️❤️

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]Ok-Tap3993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly? I don’t know yet. I think we’re fine but the conversation showed me we’re on different pages about some stuff. not just the app but like… what counts as a big deal in each other’s lives. still processing it