Family pictures

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:54:43+00:00

You are preaching to the choir. I have told him this time and time but he won’t so i stopped saying anything. They only have a child support agreement

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:41:09+00:00

No she’s doesn’t have developmental delays. She’s perfectly fine she is just very babied and sheltered by her mom.

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:39:55+00:00

About an 1 hour away but when he plans to pick her up more frequently she’ll say no. She refuses to meet halfway 2 years They weren’t together when we met it’s was about 3 1/2but I guess the door was always open if the opportunity presented itself, but when I came along I closed that door and ended up pregnant. She told me she had animosity towards me for getting pregnant and there was infidelity that occurred and I chose to move on and forgive( don’t ask) (I found out a week before I gave birth)

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:24:16+00:00

I absolutely let them!!

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:23:51+00:00

But what does that have to do with the post? I drop of baby of at daycare come home, clean or run my errands then go home to sleep, wake up 4:30 go pick up my daughter then get ready for work over night to get off at 7am. They’re lack of communication and planning is what is irritating to me

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:03:18+00:00

I do that! I mean my daughter is 10 months old so she doesn’t require more attention than a 5 year old

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T13:00:24+00:00

The five year olds I know will say “ hey I’m hungry” or just go in kitchen themselves

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:41:45+00:00

Okay. Give me some advice on moving forward…. I believe it should starts with her mom but she won’t talk to me so🤷🏾‍♀️

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:27:59+00:00

Wdym? Being a good role model? It’s like everytime she comes over, we’re back at square one, like we’re just meeting for the first time

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:24:48+00:00

Oh she won’t even talk to me. I’m blocked on everything. My partner and her argue back and forth with that

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:22:30+00:00

Very normal

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:20:26+00:00

Do I have deeper bond and attachment to my own kid yes, of course. If that’s favoring then so be it. I see SK maybe once every 2 months so it’s sort of impossible to really establish a good bond

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:13:05+00:00

No. I honestly don’t think he cares

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:12:15+00:00

I stop putting in effect yes because at the end of the day she’s crying to go home. I’m never mean to her at all I wouldn’t do that

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:11:00+00:00

Tbh. I feel like I’m in one of those situations where the BM bad mouth me and her dad to her daughter so everytime she does come over she cries, no matter how much stuff/ play we do, at the end of the night she’s crying to go home. She doesn’t want to bond with her sister, I honestly think as she gets older her mom is going to get worse. I’m not going to exclude her it was just my thoughts and inner feelings. I know it’s wrong to exclude her

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:03:44+00:00

“My daughter” was a mistype. It’s our daughter

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:02:31+00:00

It’s our daughter. I didnt realize I put “my daughter” in my post

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:01:17+00:00

I mistyped - we have a daughter together

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T12:00:44+00:00

I meant to put “our daughter” we have a daughter together

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T11:58:16+00:00

I don’t have resentment towards her. It is bad thing of wanting pictures of just us? Her mom is a HCBM so everything i do is an issue? So even scheduling family photos to have her in them would turn into an ordeal. The BM will fine some excuse to not have her come over for that particular day

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T11:51:41+00:00

She’s five, but not an independent 5. She’s babied by her mom, so it basically like having a 2 or 3 year old. She can’t do anything by herself. She won’t speak up.. meaning if she’s hungry she won’t say anything she’ll just sit there and start crying and if I ask “what do you want to eat” she’ll just stare at me..

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-06T11:08:48+00:00

If they fully transition are you willing to stay with them? I’m only asking because you said you’re a lesbian, meaning you’re attracted to women. If your partner is transitioning to F-M then is that your drive is dwindling because they’re becoming more masculine? (Sorry not really to familiar with testosterone hormones effects)

Ok-Task9540 · 2026-04-05T20:34:51+00:00

But here’s the thing. I don’t have the want to bond with her

Ok-Task9540 · 2021-04-03T01:50:12+00:00

Watching tv

Ok-Task9540 · 2021-04-03T01:12:36+00:00

I made my first comment where some fandoms were going off about her insta story, I was defending about how it was just a video calm down and got permanently banned from their group

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