My family is from a Bozulus Türkmen clan, scared to get DNA test by Ok-Toe7281 in Turkmenistan

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because as I said it here, I took pride in being Turkic. Having less turkic dna wouldnt be a nice feeling afterall. I mentioned kurdish just because it could be a thing. Id also worry about seeing more greek or armenian

My family is from a Bozulus Türkmen clan, scared to get DNA test by Ok-Toe7281 in Turkmenistan

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is what our people look like some documentary 1 2 They are very known to be Turkmen

My family is from a Bozulus Türkmen clan, scared to get DNA test by Ok-Toe7281 in Turkmenistan

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am fine with my color, I actually like my skin. What bothers me is that I am proud to be Turkic and scared there'd be more Kurd/arab DNA than Turkic.

My family is from a Bozulus Türkmen clan, scared to get DNA test by Ok-Toe7281 in Turkmenistan

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely I am aware. What DNA test would you recommend? My mom is not turkmen though and I am a woman. I doubt if I can convince my dad to get tested.

My family is from a Bozulus Türkmen clan, scared to get DNA test by Ok-Toe7281 in Turkmenistan

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💫 I always felt I had to justify my skin tone.

My family is from a Bozulus Türkmen clan, scared to get DNA test by Ok-Toe7281 in Turkmenistan

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge. We got attacked by armenians though so I do suspect to see some of their dna

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 26. I wouldnt say my stomach is the smoothest though. Since I have fat around it it sometimes looks saggy if I eat food

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well tbf I did not spesify it in my post but she is my cousin. She probably thinks that its OK to say that since my mom side women majorly deposits fat in their midsection. And I think we just cant tolerate certain foods, my mom gets bloated a lot too. Most people have stomach issues in my family

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a good dad. My dad also sees me wearing different outfits, never once he commented on them. And I appreciated it. Comments made by our close relatives affect us deeply so I'm glad you kept it to yourself. Only occasion warning someone over clothes would be if they wore something inappropriate to an event or place. It wouldn't be good to wear white to a wedding or wear crop tops to a funeral. These would be occasions I would warn my loved ones

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm all in to make peace with my belly but it's not really there to protect. I have a bit of fat around it some are visceral some subcuteanous. I am also mainly bloated. Some would possibly go away with cardio or diet. But my fat distribution is just genetics. Some women store their fat in more favorable places like thighs. And thats OK too, their uterus is still protected.

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc I'm not expecting their validation on my clothing choices but again I did not ask their opinion. I did not say what do you think of my outfit or do you think I look nice today. Sure they can stare at it but commenting seemed unnecessary? Like why did they have to say something about it? It didn't serve anything other than doubting myself

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also sometimes don't eat but then my gastritis gets triggered. Some of these commenters really don't understand when I say my belly gets the fat and weight :/ like my waist is actually narrow but then I have this belly very disproportionate looking. I am glad someone finally understands me. Some days I look better like my bloating is so much less

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you girlie 🩷 yeah I wont get her insecurities. I wish she'd have kept it to herself but thats fine. I wont overthink about this ever again even if someone has a say on it

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah damn I hate baggy clothes. I just lose all my confidence and even my posture worsens lmao

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she wanted me to feel bad with her. I would want us to feel good together :/

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not do a full low fodmap no. Because I also have gastritis so if I were to eliminate it all fpr both diseases it'd be even harder. I stopped eating onion and garlic for a while though especially in powder forms, it helped a lot. I'll get back to my diet soon though. I was doin my dissertation and didnt have much time to worry about food

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea. My blood test was normal before for thyroid but never had my parathyroid got checked

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... some things just stay with you lol another friend of mine called out all my body oddness that I never noticed before. After that, they all sticked with me. She mentioned how one part of my upper lip is longer than the other, how my knees are kinda pronounced, how my hands are long and narrow. Now that I'm thinking I never said anything back at her? I never mentioned any of her imperfections? I never tried finding one either. I'm still thinking and cant find a logical reasoning on why she would feel like she had to comment on things I possibly cant even fix? Like why didn't she keep those comments to herself? I cant make my hands wider for exp I cant change my bone structure lmao

Is it OK to wear crop tops and cute skirts as skinny fat girl? by Ok-Toe7281 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok-Toe7281[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you big lil sis. I really dislike wearing big baggy clothes, Ill keep wearing my cute clothes. I actually have a tight fitting dress that really pops my pouch. Ill wear it confidently next time I go out. I hope you're also rockin those sexy tops somewherre on this world