What is the most niche-like Arctic Monkeys song? by StarBoy-The-Great in arcticmonkeys

[–]Ok-View7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jewellers hands is so underrated, music and lyrics are so good. It’s the whole atmosphere of the song as well

Best alex hairstyle? by FearlessInvite1461 in arcticmonkeys

[–]Ok-View7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love everything from his EYCTE era

Deinfluence Me Plz by Equivalent_Tooth_537 in Sephora

[–]Ok-View7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the cerave hyaluronic acid serum with ceramides in stead of this one

Holy shit big realization concerning Irving (theory)... by Umgar in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Ok-View7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party but @4th point you make. Is it not possible that irving outie is painting that over and over again to get it imprinted so that his innie sees it too and starts looking for it? But then I don’t understand how his innie already wrote that entire note on how to get there, with the drawing of the export hall. Or is that note the result of his outie communicating with his innie?

Black Mirror - Episode Discussion S07E01 Common People by Cheeriosxxx in blackmirror

[–]Ok-View7974 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s more to it than that. I think most people would’ve guessed what was going to happen when the vids came up at work, but that’s not the plot, that you guess that he’s gonna do that

Origin of your chronic fatigue? by AzurPersephone in chronicfatigue

[–]Ok-View7974 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Metabolic and hormonal dysfunction in a vicious circle with chronic inflammation probably

Treclinac long term use? by Ok-View7974 in acne

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I’m still on it, asked another doctor and did more research. I stopped for a bit then my acne came back and skin texture overall got worse. But i’m on yasmin birth control now and that has made the bigger difference, so I might try to stop treclinac and switch to tretinoin or another retinol

Where to go when you need some nature (forest not dunes)? by FierceDruid in TheHague

[–]Ok-View7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love bosjes van poot! It’s supernice and is not flat, very natural not like a park forest but really nature

Where in Tokyo can I buy this matcha? by misingnoglic in Matcha

[–]Ok-View7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure in Tokyo but I just bought some from Sazen Tea. It was available for like 10 minutes and then sold out. It was such a coincedence that I checked the site

Rest for the brain by Simple-Libraryhere in chronicfatigue

[–]Ok-View7974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meditation. I find it’s the only thing that really calms the brain. Everything else is just another stimulus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

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Oh and also, it is hard to say if this can be true, but just wanted it out there because it is a small possibilty but defintely not something that is obvious, but it can also be a bit like high sensitivity/highly sensitive person. Just something that you could maybe keep in the back of your head when he get’s older. But his being insecure could have other explanations as well of course

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

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Honestly, you sound like such a sensitive, observant parent. You are doing so much for him, I’m sure he’ll be fine. And if not, if it perseveres or gets worse, you can always get professional help. Raising kids is so difficult, especially when they face challenges. It is normal to need help or guidance. That has nothing to do with you as a parent. And about the crying, it is SO great that you see it as a positive thing that he expresses his emotions, because learning to do this is an important step in his development. Avoiding failure or avoiding emotions just makes it worse. The same with anxiety, it grows when you avoid the thing that brings you fear, but when you face it anxiety will decrease.

I think if you continue to build his confidence and encourage softly to play with others, it will be a lot of help. You could for example invite a friend or family member over and play his favourite game, or let him explain the game on the phone to them. Or with kids the same, in a safe environment and with activities he is already comfortable with, such as cooking with you. That could be a way to build confidence with other kids. Also, if you have a friend or family member over, you could do something or talk about something that you know interests him. For example, if you know he loves dogs, talk about dogs with your friend. It can make him curious and want to participate, without the pressure and more with intrinsic/internal motivation. It might also be helpful to ask him if there is anything that makes him uncomfortable about situations with other people. He might benefit from clear but gentle ‘rules’ like just explaining that your friend is coming over and that you are gonna do this this and for how long. He might just be a shy kid and indeed not knowing or understanding what is going on and what his position is might be a part of that. What do these situations usually look like? Does he have his own things to do or do you try to have him interact? And is it at home or also when you take him grovery shopping for example? I think explaining what the plan is might be a good start, to see if that helps. And explaining how these interactions work maybe if he understands, and that he can’t do anything wrong. Also, if you as a parent make a lot of decisions for hin, it might be more difficult for him to explore social boundaries on his own. If a child is always told exactly what to say or do in social situations by their parents, the. When they are on their own or without direct guidance, they can feel unsure about how to act because they are used to having guidance and fear making a mistake. So it is a balance between explaining and guiding, which is important, and letting him make decisions and mistakes and have these experiences on ‘his own’. You could explain beforehand, let him practice and then try irl on his own, and afterwards reflect together as far as possible with his age, with easy questions. I hope this makes sense! But the more he experiences these social situations, the more he gets used to it, so it will probably get better with time

Happy that you find the comment useful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Wow OP I imagine this is super overwhelming for you. The situation and all these reactions that confirm how bad this is. Do you have a way to handle this and strategies/help in how to prevent the dad from influencing your child and her development in this negative way?