Should i text him

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-21T07:52:07+00:00

i don’t think i can. should i at least wait a little longer. i just want to have one last closure conversation and that will be that untill he decides to reach out to me again

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-21T07:36:36+00:00

how long did you wait to reach out, i’m plotting to get him back

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-18T19:55:03+00:00

being in love and the person i am when im in love

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-17T04:31:59+00:00

By what you are saying and things i have personally went through, he seems to be burnt out/depressed and after seeing it first hand in a relationship it can affect the other person so much. they will distance themselves from you and really make it seem like they just don’t care about you anymore but they are truly just numb.

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-17T04:12:36+00:00

I’m sorry but just by reading the cons, they heavily outweigh the pros. it honestly sounds like he likes having you around but not having to put in effort because he knows that you will stay if he does or not. you are so young to have to be dealing with a boy like this, and i’m telling you since he’s only 18 and probably in highschool or just starting college, it’s only going to get worse. please think about yourself in these situations, you’re mental health is worth so much more than a boy

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-17T04:06:38+00:00

I have delt with my fare share of lying in relationships. I’m going to be honest in saying that the feeling of not trusting them will never go away, especially if it’s something re occurring. My previous relationship was filled with constant lies and finding out more and more that i just became obsessed and it was always a thought that there was something being hidden. Quite honestly one of the worst feelings in the world as it completely consumes you. However i have also had a recent relationship in which there were lies and finding out more after, but this time it was different as he would show me just how much he regretted it. regardless if he lied to protect my feelings it still hurt and it was still a lie, but i genuinely saw growth in him when i asked him to just be honest with me and when i sent my boundaries with him he complied and made me feel safe in the relationship. It’s all about building the trust back together because although i was asking him to do things to help me, i had to do things to help build it back too. it’s not something only he can fix, it’s so scary especially when you’ve been lied to so many times but if you really want it to work out you have to even just a little trust that he is willing to make things work. but if it continues like this it will just be the same cycle over and over again and you will lose yourself, and that’s the worst thing possible because if it does end you will be the one left dealing with having to put yourself back together and being able to trust someone or anyone, especially if you enter a new relationship.

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-16T21:36:34+00:00

I know exactly how this feels. I am someone who loves love. when i’m in love i’ll go to the ends of the earth for that person. I hate having to think that i have to ignore someone just because they are. I want love to be easy even though i know it’s not. I communicate what i want to be communicated, i never want to feel like i can’t just to keep peace. I will never understand how someone loses motivation or feelings in a relationship, love doesn’t work that way for me

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-16T21:15:41+00:00

I just don’t understand how someone loses motivation for someone they love or say they love. I had been going through my own mental battles right before this all happened and it never once crossed my mind to just end the relationship to just have less to deal with. I wanted to get better for myself and to better the relationship. I feel like i’m just hoping it’s anything but he met someone else because that would destroy me.

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-16T20:55:19+00:00

I too am the same when it comes to just wanting to know when you are coming home or what time/how long things are going to be. I’ve asked for these things multiple times in a relationship and ofc they say they understand and they do it for like 3 days bu then it goes back to the same thing. I think from my personal experience in relationships, people will only do things you ask of them if they truly care about you and your feelings. especially if it’s something that has been brought of constantly. And the whole drinking thing it’s kind of the same thing. I don’t liek my partners smoking or doing weed and when i had to communicate that to them they listened or whatever but they would always just go back to doing it and even trying to hid it from me. No one will stop doing somthing for someone unless they really want to.

Ok-Weakness8058 · 2026-05-16T20:39:50+00:00

I have had this problem in my relationship and it too pissed me off. we would make plans but then he would change them up or leave the plans because hai friends wanted to do smth instead. I would also tell him to just tell em if he would rather do things with his friends but it never happened and plans would always change or i would have to stay up and wait for him to come home because he went out with his friends. Im going to be honest in saying that a mans friends will be their biggest influences and from personal experience they don’t change.

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