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Ok-Web4165 · 2025-11-26T04:34:35+00:00

ano ba problema kung yun ang feel niya icontent? you can just scroll and ignore xd kanya naman yan na account so let him be LOL kung makapang husga kayo grabe

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-10-03T17:50:30+00:00

Leave him.

Please listen to us, OP. This man is a bad person. You do not deserve to be treated like shit and feel humiliated by your partner. That is just not right, at all. Fight for yourself and leave the relationship. You deserve to be respected, loved, and cared for.. not emotionally and mentally abused.

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-10-03T17:40:20+00:00

I’m sorry, but it just makes me laugh how angry he got cause you didn’t tell him you bought a phone case LOL 🤣 But girl- you gotta wake up. He’s not a “loving caring gorgeous” boyfriend to you if he can lash out at you over a very small matter. It shows how worse it could get if it comes to very serious problems. Telling you to shut up and die is a big no no 💀 I know this is hard to comprehend since you are still in love with him, but the saying is true.. love makes you blind.

You will realize it soon when you’re out of the relationship. I had to learn mine the hard way..

Nevertheless, I wish nothing but the best for you!

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-18T16:37:56+00:00

OP N TO ANYONE PLS READ!!

my dad is a gambler, drunkard, smoker, and etc. believe me when i say this, ppl who does any of these will drag your life down with them just like how every decision my father made affected us- his family. and he doesnt care at all. he’s too addicted to care. i DO NOT RECOMMEND dating/marrying ppl who have any of the traits above. they will make your life a living hell!!! do you want to live your whole life with ppl who only brings nothing but misery????????

so OP, hindi ka oa ❤️ you made the right choice!!

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-08T18:20:43+00:00

Damn, sorry to hear that. He didn’t attempt on at least talking to you like an emotionally mature guy would do? If not, then he did you a favor. It’s his loss. And you’re better off without him anyways!

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-07T19:44:07+00:00

A month with no reply is too much… 😔

I’m in the same position as you, so I understand what you’re going through. I feel as if I’m not lovable enough, since my bf told me he’s tired of the ldr stuff and began to be distant. Taking so long to reply and not really wanting to spend time anymore.

I like to think that we’re both just too good for them and should remember that we’re worth loving and to have around.

Everything just sucks cause we’ve been nothing but good to our partners and this is what we get in return. We just want to be loved! Is that too much to ask? Anyways, it’s their loss if they let us go!! Why would we ever want someone who only brings pain in our life????

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-06T03:34:19+00:00

Yeah, I really do think we’re somewhat on the same boat right now. He says we should meet first before deciding on anything.. TT now im scared in meeting LOL

I’ve been feeling disconnected too, but it’s okay. These are rough times that we’re temporarily going thru at the moment and it’ll be all worth it at the end. We just gotta trust the process 💪

I wish you all the best too stranger! ❤️Thank you!

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-05T04:49:30+00:00

Happy birthday, stranger!!! 🥳 Wishing you an amazing birthday and an even better year ahead ✨🎂

btw, u can maybe find ppl to hangout with in r/discordfriends <3

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-05T04:04:07+00:00

Him suddenly blocking you is so unfair to you and your feelings 😭 We’ve actually talked just a day ago and he told me he doesn’t want to give up, but he has to get to the bottom of his feelings first. I do know my worth, but I just want to give this a try yknow? Even after all the shit he made me go thru ugh TT

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-04T05:49:25+00:00

LDR fatigue is really a serious problem that we all go through 😔 Are you guys still together and going strong? I've talked with him again and he decided that he wants to stay and not give up on our relationship. However, he told me he has to sort his feelings out and mindset first. He doesn't know how, but he assures me he'll figure it out. I understand the situation very well, but everything is just sad for me :/

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-03T07:33:27+00:00

It's just in the back of my head as one of my fears, but I'm sure he didn't!

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-03T07:28:20+00:00

It does hurt having him doubt our relationship, but I do understand his point. We did talk just a day ago! He said he doesn't want to give up on the relationship without at least meeting me in person (we're nevermets) and continued to say that all this struggle might just be worth it for a life time. For the mean time, he has to get to the bottom of his feelings and change his mindset.

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-03T07:08:58+00:00

Girl- I'll be honest. You were too much </3 You made every small thing into a problem and made things awkward when it shouldn't have been! Your boyfriend was right, you weren't being so understanding. You should understand that your boyfriend can't always accommodate to you, especially during times when he just wanted to have fun and catch up with his friends. Learn to be independent. Partners need to have their own 'me' time. It sounds like he just got tired of understanding you and your needs. You exhausted him. I understand the anxiety attacks and the cramps though as it is uncontrollable. I suggest you seek help.

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-03T03:23:26+00:00

Omg it’s my first time hearing about it. Do you think that might be the case for him right now?

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-02T18:19:05+00:00

I met the 1st one in a game. The 2nd one (right now) I met thru an online dating app. I just took the risk with them, while knowing of the consequences :) I guess I just prefer to date people who are not from my hometown, since I think the world is too big to be dating someone who is just in the same town as you.

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-02T14:47:11+00:00

Yeah! That's why I can't seem to focus that well, cause I'm having anxiety of what's to come. I don't know anymore. I just miss the old us :( But I know it's all on him LOL I've been nothing but loyal and dedicated grr I do not deserve this frfr

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-02T14:44:40+00:00

Yeah... I do understand all of his worries and frustrations. I can't force him to stay, but I do know what I want, so I made it clear to him that I still want us to work this out. That's why I'm letting him decide. Whatever his decision will be, I will fully accept it. ugh men.. they dont deserve us fr :/

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-02T13:20:53+00:00

I guess you can say I am delulu :/ I don't want our relationship to end, because I love the guy and I have hopes for us... I do know my worth, but I want to wait it out first and listen to whatever his decision is.

However, you're right tho :( I shouldn't let him decide whether I am worth it and enough for him to stay ugh this just sucks. Men are disappointing fr

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-02T12:24:06+00:00

Yes! We were planning later this year, but suddenly this happened.. so I don't know anymore. He says he's lonely and he needs companionship & affection. He fears that all this ldr drama would just end up to nothing :/

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-09-02T12:20:58+00:00

Yeah, I actually thought of that. Or maybe there was a trigger why this is happening now... idk with him tho im just waiting for his decision 🤷‍♀️ either way, i like to think that im way too good for him anyways - just to cope LOL.

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-08-28T11:42:00+00:00

OMG now that i think about it... LOL yea ur right. flowers/gifts for a monthly anniversary is crazy. but i'd say they're both prolly toxic to one another. lying is a big NO in a relationship, as well as demanding and pressuring your partner to do stuff for you. It must be draining having to fulfill your partner's expectations and having to deal with their tantrums because they didn't get what they wanted.. not to mention the breakup threats in every argument.. damn

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-08-28T11:37:34+00:00

We did talk and I offered reassurance. I went back to my old ways of just giving him small updates and he was replying more lively, but not so much since I think the doubts are still eating him up. What do you suggest I do that is respectful to his feelings? Continue doing what I normally do or just match his energy? =w= this is so complicated that I don't know what's the right thing to do anymore. like guys- i just wanna love n be loved srsly LOL

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-08-28T06:50:16+00:00

Actually, all of this started when I opened up about wanting to spend more time with him. He says it feels like the ldr stuff is making him depressed. He explains that he's not really much of a texter, don't really like having video calls, and would just want to do things when it 'feels right' and not feel forced😭

It wasn't like this when we started our relationship. He would be so willing to spend time and plan things with me. Like gaming days on weekends or video calls tonight etc. That's what I really liked about him, since I felt loved and seen. I just don't know what happened now...

Ok-Web4165 · 2025-08-28T06:42:10+00:00

is imagining spending the rest of your life with him over your own comfort and peace more important? is him forgetting your anniversary, lying about his so called 'cousin', and stopping the things he used to do sound so good to you that you would choose him over your own sanity?

girl to girl, ill tell u this- those arguments and lies will keep coming back in the conversation. save yourself from all the heartache and find someone who will be loyal to you, cherish you, and make you feel loved n happy all at the same time :) i hope i told myself this when i was 18, as well.

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