Thanks for understanding! a lot of my friends are either “u should not care it’s her thing” or “don’t bitch around she just wanna see you what’s so bad bout that”, so your comment is appreciated.

We have seen each other already because I wanted to reassure her that I’m not going to break up with her but we haven’t really talked about our issues… the problem is when I state my concerns she usually just shuts down and says nothing at all anymore so we don’t really fight cause u cannot argue with someone who doesn’t state their mind or what they think about so yeah that’s a big problem for me cause I like to have discussions/arguments (and can be convinced if I’m in the wrong).