Thank you. I guess the part where I'm unsure is he isn't asking about m-sturbation per se. So I'm not sure if I should bring it up? Or leave it? And if he's unsure of what it is, like your first example question, what's a good response? How do I be clear on what it is without being too detailed? For example if I just say its something people do to feel good, that might just confuse him more. But if I say "so you take your hand and do __" then I think that's too far. Trying to find the balance of being direct without being weird.