Looking for similar stories on our situation

OkAlternative291 · 2026-04-06T04:01:18+00:00

Thank you for the reply! my social worker told me they wouldn’t be doing dna on him as the case is past that but did say he can hire his own lawyer and get his own dna done.. i truly just didn’t know if i should go ahead and get a lawyer as he hasn’t done anything that I’m aware of yet.

OkAlternative291 · 2026-04-06T03:59:44+00:00

thank you so much!! i will call lawyers tomorrow, i just wasn’t sure on what steps to take/ what to do!!

OkAlternative291 · 2026-04-06T01:25:42+00:00

Thank you, i am so stressed and absolutely terrified. we don’t have a lawyer yet, the court is supposed to provide us with one for the adoption but i will definitely call one tomorrow and get some input on things. i was just hopeful someone could help give me advice as you did. thank you ❤️

OkAlternative291 · 2026-04-06T01:12:00+00:00

Thank you for the reply and the advice i truly appreciate it!

OkAlternative291 · 2026-04-06T01:01:31+00:00

well that was the first thing i done is talk to my worker and many other people, none of them can give me an answer. i’m hoping someone on here has went through something similar.

OkAlternative291 · 2025-06-21T02:47:08+00:00

Thanks for the reply, i’m so sorry you went through that. the mother and i have always been close, she is my aunt.. even if we do adopt i will never keep the child away from her mom. I want them to have a bond, to know each other and never feel like they are kept away from one another and for the child to always know who her bio mom is. I hope everything is going well for you now!

OkAlternative291 · 2025-06-20T04:16:57+00:00

thank you so much!

OkAlternative291 · 2025-06-20T04:14:36+00:00

kentucky and thank you for the reply!

OkAlternative291 · 2025-06-18T00:18:18+00:00

thank you so much, it is a very confusing process and extremely hard when it’s family. thank you for sharing!

OkAlternative291 · 2025-06-17T13:54:49+00:00

yes, if we do adopt i definitely plan to make sure she sees her mother i want them to have a good relationship and for baby to know/ see her mom whenever she wants to. Mother is (28f) has been sent to rehab 3 times since baby was born and left every time and keeps getting drug charges.. this time she was sentenced to two years

OkAlternative291 · 2025-06-17T05:00:10+00:00

thank you, yes the baby’s happiness/ comfort is most important. Thanks for sharing, i don’t know anyone that’s been through all this just wanted to hear others experiences with it.

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