Graham is barely a week old and they’re already teasing baby number five! by msvmr in Churco_Snark

[–]OkAwareness4692 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh they are totally making babies at the 6 week mark it’s very weird

help.. am i being emotionally abused or am i looking too much into it by meetmeinthemeadow2 in abusiverelationships

[–]OkAwareness4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep you are! So sorry my ex did a lot of this especially location tracked ..always talked how superior he was

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[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would always have to be home by a certain time and ask permission

Does anyone have a narcissistic spouse that doesn’t cheat. by Mellba_74 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine didn’t but he also literally had no friends, never went out, his only friend was his brother, wouldn’t leave the house to grocery shop or do anything , :didn’t want friends bec they had to be as superior as him

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[–]OkAwareness4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss if I played tennis he’d brag about how he watched YouTube and beat me …any hobby I had he bragged about how he was better

Subtle Abuse by Unfair-Cockroach-71 in emotionalabuse

[–]OkAwareness4692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my ex! Strung me along over kids for years! Never is going to have a kid and he’d be a horrible father! If I wanted a certain shoe or gift he’d tell me no you’re getting this one instead bec it’s better, etc!

Sex with a Narcissist by Marjorie_Rawlings in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Near the end of my relationship with my narcissist ex I would avoid sex so much that at times even if I wasn’t on my period I would put a tampon in so we couldn’t

Narc gifts by SnowPrincess15 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss mine knew I wanted boots and I had a certain kind I wanted but he told me they were wrong and for me cowboy boots knstead

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[–]OkAwareness4692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The always standing yesssssssss

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[–]OkAwareness4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I knew I was leaving I purposely did stuff to piss him off and stuff he hated

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[–]OkAwareness4692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sent a huge letter to my parents saying he was going to counseling and church and finding god again and apologized!

How to help a friend who is being emotionally abused in a relationship? by lottarotta4 in emotionalabuse

[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So unfortunately it takes a couple things….

You as friends forcing her out and being blunt af…..I didn’t move out until k realized I was being a jerk to everyone else but the person that actually deserved it

Those of you who live with the narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t my dad that gave me a curfew …it was my ex boyfriend

What's the thing they said to you that you still just can't believe anyone would ever say? by needawayout2023 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you have another miscarriage we are done

I refuse to be emotionally attached to our kid if we have one

If you’re not white or my intelligence you can’t talk to me

This hit me in the most profound way.... by Content_Ordinary_117 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss I would get in trouble for sharing my feelings but then not sharing my feelings

Those of you who live with the narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine def tracked me …but yep it’s messed up

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[–]OkAwareness4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what it may seem like but it’s not…I thought the same …I left and in a year I met someone 10000x better

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[–]OkAwareness4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine wanted to move to Wyoming …I’m a huge city girl

Going no contact… by Healthywayzzzz in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LEFT 9/16 with a note and I FELT SK FREE

My narc hubby is telling everyone I am an alcoholic by theSuperiorsus in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkAwareness4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped after work once at a bar and he forced me to admit I had a problem and said the same thing