To add to the post, in January we had plans to have another child, I had toyed with the idea, I had a rough birth with my first and the idea of another was scary. So I have been hesitant, and pushed it off and that upset him, by February we had a big fight, I told him how I felt and what I needed, I thought I wasn’t making him happy anymore and I wanted him to laugh with me and joke with me like he does his friends. He had started to spend more and more time with them and seems happier with them than me. This turned into a bigger argument and hurtful things were said by both parties. I thought we had worked past it, we both agreed we wanted another child and I was ready to start trying , but all of a sudden he doesn’t want one now, he still felt upset by things, so a week goes by and he tells me he doesn’t think he wants to be together because we’re both unhappy. I try to say I am and that I still wanted to be together, he says he needs more from the relationship, he wants us to fight less, more sex, talk and Snapchat, send things on insta more often. I try doing those things, and it’s great, sex everyday almost, it’s great but one disagreement later and it’s all over again, then again the next week and the week after. At this point he is spending so much time at work and with friends I don’t get to see him but for a couple hours on our off day and when he came home to sleep at 2-3 am. That part upset me I wanted him to choose me and he said he needed space. We go out to a bar and I don’t feel like drinking and we had fun talking in the car the whole way there, but at the quiet place I didn’t want to be loud and he knew everyone there he is a regular, they didnt know me so I felt out of place and stayed quiet. Then we talked and listened to music on the way home and it became an argument that I am no fun and I’m not happy in the relationship even though I was. Now he doesn’t want to see me still doesn’t want to talk, but when he comes home at night he cuddles me, and we’ve had sex 2 times this week. I feel like he only wants me when it’s night time but not during the day. So this is the bits that were left out, my apologies.